无题～

本来应该在做着事情，但是思绪一直不能集中～头脑有太多的画面一直在重播～

昨晚的对话让我发现，原来男人都是看外表的～男人都喜欢漂亮的人，东西，或事物～

其实又何止是男人呢？所有的人都一样，每个人都喜欢漂亮的东西呀～

我知道他说话时无心的，可是心还是痛了一下～

原来我的外貌真的是上不了台面～哈哈～

我其实真的是一个笨蛋，一直在很努力的在达到别人的标准～

说什么减肥是为了健康，都是骗人的～

其实，我只是在努力达到别人对我的要求～

因为大家都不喜欢胖胖的人，那我就减肥吧～

但是，虽然瘦了很多，别人也觉得”是，你瘦了很多”， 后面还有一个但是，“你还不到标准，要加油哦，继续瘦下去”～

很累，真的觉得很累～

我一直跟自己说要坚强，我以为我真的成功了，我在很努力的表现不是自己的自己～

因为表现自己会让人觉得自己很不成熟，让人觉得自己很不懂事～

本来以为不提，不说，不讲，就没有人知道～

原来还是自己傻的可以，自己骗自己，原来大家都知道～哈哈～

我在很努力地面对大家了～我不知我能做的多好，但是我在尽全力了～

我觉得我快要得面部神经失调症～我不知道自己的面部表情如何，不过至少我是在努力的展现笑容～至于成不成功，就不在我的范围里面～

其实，一直在回想，只是让我觉得自己很笨～我真的很不想承认，但是为什么我就是这么傻？

她要回来了，其实我很感恩，这两个星期她不在这里，我才有时间好好思考～

其实，我是很不想理她的，无论任何理由～但是，我必须想到自己在教会的领袖责任～

我不可以这么自私，所以就算是表面也好，也要对她公平～

是很假，很虚伪，但是这是做人的道理～

其实，我也没想对她怎样，就只是不想面对她～但是这不可行，会让自己留下话柄～

所以，我会很努力，再次把自己伪装好，来面对人群～

其实·，我真的很想离开教会，但是我跟自己说，不可以这么任性，我还有很多教会的责任，不能说跑就跑～很想跑回家，但是，我不可以这么任性，我还有教书的责任～就算只是part-time，我也必须对他们负责任～有责任感是好还是不好？哈哈，笨蛋，现在你跑不掉了～

乱七八糟，没有次序，我想我也患上思绪失调症吧？！不知道自己到底说了什么～

如果，你正在看这篇文章，不要吓到，因为是我在发神经，其实没事的，所以不要担心～

我的结论是，我真的是一个超级大笨蛋～哈哈～

19句至理名言

1、如果发短信息给一个人，他一直不回，不要再发了。没有这么卑微的等待。

2、如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写点心情日记。这是个好习惯。

3、如果一个人很难过，找个角落或者在被子里哭一下，不需要别人同情可怜，哭过之后一样开

心生活。

4、如果一个人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂珍惜你的人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的

友情或爱情，到头来受伤的是自己他人不会为之难过。

5、如果可以不抽烟，别抽。如果可以不喝酒，别喝。这是不爱惜自己身体的表现，如果只因一

些人，那么我们别傻了，爱你的人不会让你难过的。

6、伤心的时候找个信任的朋友诉说一下，不要一个人默默承受，这只会会更添寂寞感与忧伤。

7、不开心的时候白天看看蓝天晚上看看夜色，广阔的天空自有属于我们 爱，宁可高傲的发霉不

要低调的恋爱。跟自己说我是最好的。保持一份自信。

8、宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个恋人，这对两人都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。找个知

己不要是恋人。

9、记住你喜欢的人的生日，包括你的家人，当然，还有自己。生日没有人送礼物也无所谓，你

可以买精美的礼物，送给妈妈和爸爸。

10、闲下来的时候,放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。心情不好的时候,也可以睡一觉。

11、从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问别人想不想你？爱不爱你？若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你

说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。

12、不要太在意一些人太在乎一些事，顺其自然以最佳心态面对，因为这世界就是这么不公平往

往在最在乎的事物面前我们最没有价值。

13、不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的

事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。

14、任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。多个朋友是好事，即使不是很

要好的，总比因为自己说话不慎重不思考而多一个敌人好得多。

15、允许偶尔看肥皂剧，但不可成为依赖。允许偶尔披头散发，但要注重场合。允许偶尔骂脏

话，但只限在老友面前或者独自一人时，记得说过后要忘掉那些让你难过的事。

16、一定要有几个异性朋友，没有非分之想.就是关键时候,帮你出出主意的好友。

17、学会承受痛苦自己调整心态。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当

经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要你自己说，别人会看得到

。

18、能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。忍耐然后

思索问题的根源最后平静心态解决它 。

19、不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭，解决的时间不要超过24小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范

围内，先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。

生活可以很复杂以可以很简单，我们不要总是活在忧伤和痛苦之中，爱自己多一点！不为一些不

值得的事物而觉得生活总是那么的痛苦无助，人生的方向盘掌握在我们自己手里，有一天阳光大道等着我们走，放开自己，高傲的活着，只要自己幸福开心的，痛苦过去的伤就让他随风而去吧....告诉世界我们属于现在而不是过去！

Why to Delete a Facebook Account

Facebook introduced me to world of internet social networking. I was in an orchestral board meeting and I mentioned "the rolodex." I got real laughter. "You use a rolodex?" I was bewildered. I had not heard that rolodex was out. "People use facebook now." Well, I didn't know that facebook had replaced the rolodex, but the one telling me was a high level manager in a large Bay Area company. I figured he must be right. "Rolodex" was truly funny to several people in that meeting.

I had joined facebook without really thinking about what I was doing. Sometimes I make picks for the games of the NCAA basketball tournament. I decided to make them on the CBS sportsline website. I liked the way that my choices looked in their proper place on the bracket on the computer screen. To use their bracket I had to join this "facebook" thing I had vaguely heard of. This was several years ago. After I signed up, I started getting requests in my email box, asking me to be a friend. I always said, "no," and deleted them. I hadn't even looked at my facebook site. About six months ago, I decided to become more active at facebook because it was something my son was going to be involved with and I wanted him to have accountability.

I learned a little about facebook. There were many aspects about it that I never liked. I was always uncomfortable there. Everyone in our family has now deleted his facebook account. I'm going to tell my problems with facebook. This will give someone reasons why to delete a facebook account. I'm not expecting that any one of these reasons will be enough to persuade someone to drop it like I did, but all of them combined should at least get you thinking. Once I deleted my account, I have not only not missed it, but it has been wonderful to lose it.

1. Facebook hinders scriptural values.

Facebook wasn't around when David Wells wrote No Place for Truth, but if it was, I think he would have written about it in that book.

Having turned inward in a search for meaning, we turn outward in a search for direction, scanning others for the social signals they emit regarding what is in and what is out, what is desirable and what is not. . . . This person is oriented not to inner values but to other people. It is in the peer group that acceptance is found and outcasts are named. . . . Where once people took pride in accomplishments and in their character, [they] think only of how they stand with others. . . . Once people worked to achieve tangible ends, to accomplish things. Now, such accomplishments are of far less significance than one's "image." Once people worked; now they manipulate. Once people sweated; now they seduce. Once people wished to be respected, to have their accomplishments recognized; now they wish to be envied, regardless of whether they are envied for anything they have actually accomplished.

This characteristic of modernity does not orient itself toward God, but toward people. It influences away from judging based on scriptural values and toward judging based upon a societal norm.

2. Facebook alters the biblical understanding of friendship.

To be a friend at facebook, just click. Normally I'm careful with whom I choose as friends. I might be able to be a friend to someone, but someone can't be a friend to me without fulfilling certain characteristics. James tells us (4:4) that friendship with the world is enmity with God. I can't have enmity with God, so I can restrain myself in my choice of friends. I'm to have no company with certain people and mark and avoid others. People in your "friends" list at facebook might be people that would never join my church. We don't believe or practice the same. I don't want to call them my friends. In so doing, I believe I'm just dumbing down what the Bible says about a friend. Here's something else that Dr. Carl Trueman said about it:

The way of connecting with people on Facebook is, apparently, to `friend' somebody. That the noun has become a verb is scarcely cause for concern; but the cheapening of the word surely is. Simply to be linked to someone on the internet is not true friendship; yet the use of the word creates the image that such is the case, or at least blurs the difference between casual internet acquaintance and somebody for whom one might have real affinity, affection, and concern. . . . Further, as the language of friendship is hijacked and cheapened by these internet social networks, this cheapening itself is part and parcel of a redefining of intimacy based upon the erosion of the boundaries between the public and private.

3. Facebook sets wicked things before your eyes.

I can't control the content of what I look at on my facebook page. I not only look at things I don't want to see, but I invite others to look at them when they look at my facebook page. Pictures, advertisements, and statements show up that I don't want to see or have others see either.

4. Facebook causes people to stumble.

I might be able to handle some of what my "friends" believe and practice, but not everyone can. I'd rather not introduce people to other people that I'd rather they didn't meet.

5. Facebook hinders real discernment.

If you were to judge each of your friends based upon a scriptural standard, you would probably lose a large number of them. But you don't. Why? You want to be sociable. It encourages you to make decisions based upon how you feel instead of what the Bible says.

6. Facebook wastes time.

I know you could argue with me on this one by pointing out other ways I waste time. You may think that I'm doing that by writing this blog. Fine. I think it's different but I'm not going to take the time to defend my blog writing right now. Here's how facebook uniquely wastes time. You open yourself up to social activity that you wouldn't choose as a good use of your minutes. You have a friend who isn't much of a friend. That friend writes on your wall. Now what do you have to do? You have to write something back to him. Don't you want to keep your choices about communication under control? You have created new things to take away time from something productive. If you have facebook, you've got to maintain it. Is it worth maintaining?

7. Facebook encourages busybodying.

I've had people ask to be my friend whom I know don't care about me. I know they don't really want to be my friend. What is it that people want? They want to find out what you're doing. I'm not ashamed of what I'm doing, but I believe that this kind of voyeurism fits the biblical criteria of the busybody. It influences others toward being one. "Why did so and so become his friend and not mine?" "I wonder why he has so many friends or who those people are."

8. Facebook hinders real relationships.

Do you think that a real relationship is sitting in front of a computer screen at 11:00 at night? When you could be talking to a real person either in person or by phone, you are constructing your facebook persona.

9. Facebook doesn't like bold, biblical Christianity.

Watch your "friends" list shrink when you confront people about something sinful on their wall, in a photo, or in a comment. Facebook isn't designed for confrontational Christianity, the kind we see Jesus do in the Bible. Typical facebook brings up something essentially secular, earthly, or temporal. You then interact on the same level, training yourself to do more of it. It is a bastion of compromise.

10. Facebook redefines biblical community.

In a real community people do things for each other. Facebook isn't about doing anything to help anyone. I'm not saying that nothing can be done, but it doesn't encourage that. It encourages a fake community. You can join a cause, but what does the cause really do? When you're asked to join a cause, for instance, against internet pornography. That is good. That's a wonderful thing to be against. I'm even for being in a group that is against it. It might even make me think more about being against it. But how are you helping get rid of pornography? What you could do is talk to someone that has an immodest picture up and ask him to take it down. And I really am part of a group that is already against it---my church.

11. Facebook offers way too much acceptance.

Much of what is on facebook should be rejected. However, facebook is all about affirming. You affirm people that really need confrontation. Since very often you can't really know the person you're talking to, you could easily be reaffirming someone with a lukewarm, worldly brand of Christianity that isn't honoring to Christ.

12. Facebook is too public.

Yes, too public. What do I mean? It offers people an opportunity to snoop around and get information. I recognize that you have means on facebook to control that, but it still is a place for trolling perverts. I don't want to be on the same playing field with them or encourage others to be there with me....and him.

13. Facebook preys on fleshly tendencies of man's nature.

Facebook makes you think too much about yourself. Your status shouldn't matter. Someone shouldn't have to return a comment just because you've made one. Facebook fits the narcissism of our day in which men have become lovers of their own selves. What difference does it make how many friends you have as long as you have the friend of sinners Himself, the Lord Jesus.

14. Facebook breaks down decent language.

You can talk right on facebook, but it doesn't encourage it. What it encourages is drivel. We should want to elevate one another, to bring up the level of discourse. That doesn't occur when these abbreviations and slang are used. Young people even feel pressured to bow to talking like this. It attacks spelling, grammar, syntax, and cogent thought. It's lazy speech and many times gutter language.

15. Facebook spawns fraudulence and hypocrisy.

You don't have to be who you are on facebook. You can create a whole different persona of yourself that is a lie. It spawns this kind of activity. Here's what Trueman wrote on this:

On Facebook, I can be anybody I want to be: an eighteen year old Californian with a six-pack, good teeth, a sun tan and a pilot's license; or even a 25 year old blonde beauty queen from North Carolina with a degree in astrophysics. I can become the ultimate in self-created beings - a factor which, I am sure, also partially explains the massive, if little noted, popularity of role-playing video games in the modern world. In virtual world, be it Facebook or the undersea city portrayed in Bioshock, I can be anyone I choose to be. I am the Creator; or at least, I have the potential to think I am.

Even if you sort of know who you're talking to, the person can take advantage of the anonymity of it.

16. Facebook tempts toward infidelity.

I've seen married women talking to younger men on facebook, legitimizing this kind of relationship and giving a false boost to the boy's ego. Her picture might be the most inviting, even a little risque, putting thoughts in his mind that he shouldn't have. Men like to hear someone boast on them, and perhaps they're not getting enough of that at home. These places and others stimulate that kind of activity. Men and women mix in unhealthy ways that would be discouraged in a different setting. Her husband may not be talking to her like she is talked to. She doesn't have to work at it. She can just go to her facebook to get what she needs.

17. Facebook makes you a consumer in a day when we need more producers.

Facebook is a company. They sell ads. They make money off of you. You may not buy anything, but you are another statistic for them to use to sell ads. In other words, facebook is using you. You may think that you are using facebook, but I would say that the owners think otherwise, especially as they laugh all the way to the bank.

18. Facebook is an easy temptation when you need to be getting something done---really done.

You need to write. Go to facebook instead. Homework not done. Gotta do facebook. Need to memorize some Scripture. Facebook is there. Haven't exercised. Oh well, let's facebook. Trueman again writes:

Well, the virtual world is new but it is here to stay; and it will no doubt continue to shape human behavior and self-understanding. We cannot ignore it but neither should we simply allow it to dictate to us who we are and how we think. Thus, we must teach people by precept and example that real life is lived primarily in real time in real places by real bodies. Pale and pimply bloggers who spend most of their spare time onanistically opining about themselves and their issues and in befriending pals made up of pixels are not living life to the full; nor are those whose lives revolve around videogames; rather they are human amoebas, subsisting in a bizarre non-world which involves no risk to themselves, no giving of themselves to others, no true vulnerability, no commitment, no self-sacrifice, no real meaning or value. To borrow a phrase from Thoreau, the tragedy of such is that, when they come to die, they may well discover that they have never actually lived.

For myself, I rejoice that I grew up before the web and the videogame supplanted the real world of real friendships, real discussions, real lives. I did not spend my youth growing obese and developing Vitamin D deficiency in front of an illuminated screen, living my life through the medium of pixels.

19. Facebook causes more facebook.

Very few people could handle facebook in a scriptural manner. It offers so many temptations. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

泪了～

爱情只属于俊男美女么？

这次真的是泪了～

我以为我很坚强，但是当我知道事情的真相的时候，心很痛～

我以为他也喜欢我，所以才会对我好～

原来真的是我自作多情～

如果不是喜欢我，为什么要对我那么好?

你以为对每个人好就是好人的表现吗？

不是这样的，你会让人误会的～

我很幸苦，很受伤，又不可以让好朋友知道，免得她觉得难过～

他喜欢上你不是你的错，只是我真的觉得很难过很难过～

好想回家，只有家人不会嫌弃我～

我就是我，为什么我找不到喜欢我的人？

我真的那么不漂亮吗？我真的不吸引人吗？我的条件真的那么差吗？

找不到自信，找不到～

其实也不可以怪别人，是我自己傻～

傻女，不是每个对你好的人你就要喜欢他～

你要学习把自己的心收好，不要轻易把心给出去～

当心碎的时候，只会让自己很难过很难过～

我需要时间康复～我需要时间冷静～真的很难过，真的真的很难过～

恩恩

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做不成男女朋友，做个特别的朋友

两个可能彼此相爱、喜欢的人，

但是，又不属于友情、爱情、亲情中的任何一种，

彼此不能成为男女朋友，只能做个特别的朋友……

也许是为了朋友之间的义气，不能归属。

也许是为了顾及家人的意见，不能归位。

也许是为了自己的前程，不能承诺。

也许是相遇太早，还不懂得珍惜对方。

也许是相遇太晚，彼此身边已经有了另一个人。

也许是回头太迟，对方已不再等待。

也许彼此在捉摸对方的心，而迟迟无法跨出界线……

彼此仍能找到塌实的感觉，

仍然会保持不隶属任何一种感情的关系。

但是彼此心底清楚，

对这个人，你比朋友还多了一份关心。

因为有了彼此，心里总是被幸福塞的满满的……

即使不能彼此名正言顺的牵着手逛街，

还是可以做无所不谈的朋友。

彼此有喜欢的人，口头上会说不吃醋，

心里却会觉得胃疼……

对方遇到困难时，

会尽全力伸出援助之手，

不会计较谁又欠了谁。

对方生病了，

会缴尽脑汁找药方，

恨不得变成护士，陪伴在身旁……

每个人这辈子，

心中都有过这幺一个特别的朋友，

很矛盾的行为。

一开始可能不甘心只做朋友的，

但久了，突然发现这样最好。

宁愿这样关心对方的心情，

总好过彼此生活在一起受伤害……

做不成男女朋友，

当个特别的朋友，

有什么不好呢？

你心中的这个特别的朋友...? 是谁呢

很多的感情，

都败在了现实的面前……

友情可以演变成为爱情，

爱情最终进化成为亲情，

彼此就将友情直接进步到亲情……

人生不过百年……

能牵手的时候，请别只是肩并肩，

能拥抱的时候，请别只是手牵手，

能在一起的时候，请别轻易分开，

能成为红颜知己，请别刻意离开！

珍惜彼此之间塌实的感觉

如果我只是【过客】，请不要对我好！

如果我真的很不重要，如果我只是你生命中的过客

那么请你，请你不要对我好，

不要让我发现自己已经习惯你、依赖你到无法自拔。




从一开始，我只是陪你走过一段人生的小路程。

如果注定会分离，就别让我去抽离这种习惯！

因为伤不起，因为承受不起。

也许曾经想过封闭起自己，

只是遇到了你，以及你们，

让我觉得有支撑下去的勇气！

可是有的时候真的是太在乎，太容易受伤了。

不经意的知道很多。



是什么感觉呢？就像自己落水了，然后在绝望的那一刻，

有一只手伸过来带给我生的希望，

就在我真的真的想要把自己生命，

所有的希望交个那个人的时候，

却丢下我走了，任由我往水里沉！

从天堂掉下地狱。

知不知道，你真的对我是很重要，很重要的，

但是当我知道原来你不曾像我这样想过，

当我知道你根本就不曾在乎过，

或者把我当一个玩耍的工具时，

才觉得自己是真的傻，真的笨吧！



像以前遇到的很多人，说着很好听很好听的话，

让我以为自己仿佛是他的整个世界，

可是就要去相信去接受的时候，

却让我知道，原来一切都是假的。

为什么我拼命告诉自己不能轻易相信别人？

却还是选择了相信。我相信的人，

你对我很重要，或许我是真的没有长大，

所以我喜欢去相信你，去依赖你！

比其他人更在乎你的一言一行，也许你不曾感觉到，

但那是真的，那种感情，跟爱情，友情，亲情都没有关系。

特别得说不出来。

有一天，你出什么事了，我也会焦虑会害怕，

有一天，自己很难过很难过了，想要逃的时候，也怕你会担心。

把你当作我生命中很重要的人，但是有一天如果你不管我了，

丢下我了，连话都不想跟我说了，也许不仅仅是难过，还有……



如果我真的是无所谓有无所谓无的，

那么从一开始就别对我好，

因为也许你一点点的温暖就会想让我拥有整个太阳！

不要给我施舍的好，不要给我同情的好，一旦我习惯了这些好，

当你转身即走的时候，留下的除了一道道伤痕还有什么呢？

这是自己曾经很想说的话，现在转过来！

现在想来，这只是青春的必经之路，

有痛苦，有甜蜜，回过头来看，

留下的只是淡淡的回忆！～

痛了...自然就会放手了~

一个苦者找到一个和尚倾诉他的心事。

他说：“我放不下一些事，放不下一些人。”

和尚说：“没有什么东西是放不下的。”

他说：“这些事和人我就偏偏放不下。”

和尚让他拿着一个茶杯，然后就往里面倒热水，一直倒到水溢出来。

苦者被烫到马上松开了手。

和尚说：“这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的，痛了，你自然就会放下。”



你可能觉得难过

因为无论你对他怎么好他都不领情

他不是看不到

他只是装作看不到

或者他根本不想看到

你觉得自己很喜欢他

甚至觉得再没有一个人可以像你那么喜欢他

你用尽全力对他好

把他看的比自己还重要

有什么事情第一个就想到他



联系不到他的时候你担心他担心的快疯了

然而你有没有想过

这并不在你的责任范围

而且很有可能他是在躲着你

他受不了你对他那么好

不要一直发短信给他

不要一直找他

你也许只是想找他说说话

你觉得那很正常不算苛求

但是也许他并不这么想

记住你的想法不代表他的想法

你是真的不求回报的在喜欢他吗

你扪心自问一下

你确定不用他回报什么吗

那为什么你会难过

若是真的一无所求

你又怎么会觉得难过呢

所以别觉得你那么爱他是伟大的

也许她根本不在乎你怎么为他付出

有时候你给他的爱或许是种负担



这种负担只会让他更加想远离你

因为他不想亏欠你

别事事为他担心为他张罗

你觉得他没有你不行

你觉得别人做不到你那么完善

但是你要清楚

你不是他要的那个人

你做的再完善也敌不过人家不做

自然会有人为他担心为他着急

不用你来费心



那个位置本来就不是你的

你何必硬要挤上去呢

也许曾经你们是相爱过的

但是请记住那是曾经

过去的就是过去了

如果大家真的适合在一起

那么当初就不会分开

无论是谁提的分手都一样

这段感情曾经就是存在破裂点的

不管是谁错结果都是一个你们分开了



分开以后

如果一方试图想挽回而另一方没有同意的话

那么这段感情就是过去了

他是理智的因为他已经明白了两个人不适合

而你还一遍一遍的告诉自己

你们当初如何如何相爱

不可能那么容易就分手的

这样只会让你更加难以放弃

却不会让对方再次回头选择你

除非大家都有意要和好

否则你一个巴掌是不可能拍响的

所以尽早打消这个念头吧

至于他是不是有意我想你自己心里比谁都明白

不要觉得自己有多可怜或者把自己弄的很可怜

这样做一点意思也没有

他不会因为你可怜而喜欢你

你说道理你都懂只是你做不好

不是你做不好是你不想做

你不是怕忘记他你是怕他忘了你吧

别说什么他离不开你的



其实分明就是你离不开他

他若是离不开你

他就不会不要你

整天死死巴着人家不放的人是你

不懂事的人是你

难道你没看出来吗

喜欢他不是你的错

想关心他不是你的错

控制不住自己不是你的错

但是那是你的方式



傻孩子．

忘了吧．所有你留恋的．你回忆的．你拥有过的．

那些．都已是记忆．

缺失并不可怕．

可怕的．是无法面对．



傻孩子．

勇敢看着镜子中的自己吧．

这个悲伤软弱满面憔悴的自己．

这也是你．成长中的你．

这个你．正在逐渐死去．

新的你．即将重生．

找寻你的路．你的未来．

你知道的．所有的浩劫．都是成长的祭奠．

做最好的自己．即使．一个人．

傻孩子

你无法轻易忘记放弃．是因为你付出过．

付出了．她就会像柱子一样扎根在心．

不要刻意去逃避．刻意忘记．那只会让你更痛苦．

绕开这个柱子．寻找未来的幸福生活吧．

那里．有你的理想．



傻孩子．

开始新的习惯吧．

习惯．早上不再有人工闹铃．

习惯．每天一个人生活．

习惯．一个人过生日．一个人行走．

你逃不掉．逃不掉的．

那么．就勇敢面对．现实．

现实是．她已离开．一切．画上了句点．



傻孩子．

好．好．尽情发泄吧．

剥开自己的心．用文字．用声音．用所有能发泄的方式．

泄完了．就要振作．

看吧．你失去的．其实微不足道．

还有那么多人关心着你．以不同的方式．

所以．你并不孤独．

正是这样的失去．让你看清现在所拥有的幸福．



傻孩子．

别哭．别再哭．

不值得．真的．不值得了

．
把过去尘封吧．别委屈．别不甘心．别不接受．

开始新的旅程吧．去遇见新的风景．新的际遇．

做你该做的事吧．有很多事．等待着你完成呢．



傻孩子．

所有的人都对你有信心．

所以．你也要充满信心．

你是坚强的．积极的．乐观的．洒脱的．

以前是．以后也会是．

总有一天．那个活力无穷傻气无尽的女金刚会复活．



傻孩子．

生活褪去了曾有的颜色．暂时宁静．

别沉沦在这片宁静里．那会毁掉你．

你要明白．虽然残忍．但这个决定．足够正确．

现在的生活．不是你想要的．

为了你的理想．你必须学会适时放弃．

给对方最好的关怀．就是．变的更好．更强大．更幸福．

现在我对你很好、很好、很好,

你不需要、你无所谓、你不在乎，你不珍惜。。。。

当某天，你被伤害，想起我。

那时的我再也做不到像现在这样一如既往、不顾一切的



对你好了。。

。
因为那时的我，已经将你放低。。。。

原来，放低一个人，最后是被对方逼出来的。。。。

其实这个世界，真的没有非要谁不可，

走自己的路，别回头