tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89102976384194664242024-03-12T23:08:03.557-07:00*EnEn's Blog*EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.comBlogger70125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-55711357501686870092010-03-12T20:33:00.000-08:002010-03-12T21:03:40.620-08:00无题~本来应该在做着事情,但是思绪一直不能集中~头脑有太多的画面一直在重播~<div><br /></div><div>昨晚的对话让我发现,原来男人都是看外表的~男人都喜欢漂亮的人,东西,或事物~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实又何止是男人呢?所有的人都一样,每个人都喜欢漂亮的东西呀~</div><div><br /></div><div>我知道他说话时无心的,可是心还是痛了一下~</div><div><br /></div><div>原来我的外貌真的是上不了台面~哈哈~</div><div><br /></div><div>我其实真的是一个笨蛋,一直在很努力的在达到别人的标准~</div><div><br /></div><div>说什么减肥是为了健康,都是骗人的~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实,我只是在努力达到别人对我的要求~</div><div><br /></div><div>因为大家都不喜欢胖胖的人,那我就减肥吧~</div><div><br /></div><div>但是,虽然瘦了很多,别人也觉得”是,你瘦了很多”, 后面还有一个但是,“你还不到标准,要加油哦,继续瘦下去”~</div><div><br /></div><div>很累,真的觉得很累~</div><div><br /></div><div>我一直跟自己说要坚强,我以为我真的成功了,我在很努力的表现不是自己的自己~</div><div><br /></div><div>因为表现自己会让人觉得自己很不成熟,让人觉得自己很不懂事~</div><div><br /></div><div>本来以为不提,不说,不讲,就没有人知道~</div><div><br /></div><div>原来还是自己傻的可以,自己骗自己,原来大家都知道~哈哈~</div><div><br /></div><div>我在很努力地面对大家了~我不知我能做的多好,但是我在尽全力了~</div><div><br /></div><div>我觉得我快要得面部神经失调症~我不知道自己的面部表情如何,不过至少我是在努力的展现笑容~至于成不成功,就不在我的范围里面~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实,一直在回想,只是让我觉得自己很笨~我真的很不想承认,但是为什么我就是这么傻?</div><div><br /></div><div>她要回来了,其实我很感恩,这两个星期她不在这里,我才有时间好好思考~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实,我是很不想理她的,无论任何理由~但是,我必须想到自己在教会的领袖责任~</div><div><br /></div><div>我不可以这么自私,所以就算是表面也好,也要对她公平~</div><div><br /></div><div>是很假,很虚伪,但是这是做人的道理~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实,我也没想对她怎样,就只是不想面对她~但是这不可行,会让自己留下话柄~</div><div><br /></div><div>所以,我会很努力,再次把自己伪装好,来面对人群~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实·,我真的很想离开教会,但是我跟自己说,不可以这么任性,我还有很多教会的责任,不能说跑就跑~很想跑回家,但是,我不可以这么任性,我还有教书的责任~就算只是part-time,我也必须对他们负责任~有责任感是好还是不好?哈哈,笨蛋,现在你跑不掉了~</div><div><br /></div><div>乱七八糟,没有次序,我想我也患上思绪失调症吧?!不知道自己到底说了什么~</div><div><br /></div><div>如果,你正在看这篇文章,不要吓到,因为是我在发神经,其实没事的,所以不要担心~</div><div><br /></div><div>我的结论是,我真的是一个超级大笨蛋~哈哈~</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-54755932517228633532010-03-05T08:05:00.000-08:002010-03-05T08:11:18.260-08:0019句至理名言<span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">1、如果发短信息给一个人,他一直不回,不要再发了。没</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">有这么卑微的等待。<br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">2、如果没有人陪,学着一个人听音乐看书写点心情日记。</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">这是个好习惯。<br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">3、如果一个人很难过,找个角落或者在被子里哭一下,不</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">需要别人同情可怜,哭过之后一样开</span></span><div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">心生活。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">4、如果一个人开始怠慢你,请你离开他。不懂珍惜你的人</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">不要为之不舍,更不必继续付出你的</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">友情或爱情,到头来受伤的是自己他人不会为之难过。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">5、如果可以不抽烟,别抽。如果可以不喝酒,别喝。这是</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">不爱惜自己身体的表现,如果只因一</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">些人,那么我们别傻了,爱你的人不会让你难过的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">6、伤心的时候找个信任的朋友诉说一下,不要一个人默默</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">承受,这只会会更添寂寞感与忧伤。<br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">7、不开心的时候白天看看蓝天晚上看看夜色,广阔的天空</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">自有属于我们 爱,宁可高傲的发霉不</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">要低调的恋爱。跟自己说我是最好的。保持一份自信。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">8、宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个恋人,这对两人都</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">不公平,而且太缺乏责任感。找个知</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">己不要是恋人。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">9、记住你喜欢的人的生日,包括你的家人,当然,还有自</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">己。生日没有人送礼物也无所谓,你</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">可以买精美的礼物,送给妈妈和爸爸。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">10、闲下来的时候,放一段柔情音乐,翻阅几页好书,然</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">后睡个懒觉,快哉。心情不好的时候,也可以睡一觉。<br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">11、从现在开始,聪明一点,不要问别人想不想你?爱不</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">爱你?若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">说,但是从你的嘴里说出来,别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">12、不要太在意一些人太在乎一些事,顺其自然以最佳心</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">态面对,因为这世界就是这么不公平往</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">往在最在乎的事物面前我们最没有价值。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">13、不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">、自闭、抑郁,这些都是傻瓜才做的</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">事。当然,偶尔傻一下有必要,人生不必时时聪明。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">14、任何情况下,背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说,</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">说好话。多个朋友是好事,即使不是很</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">要好的,总比因为自己说话不慎重不思考而多一个敌人好得多。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">15、允许偶尔看肥皂剧,但不可成为依赖。允许偶尔披头</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">散发,但要注重场合。允许偶尔骂脏</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">话,但只限在老友面前或者独自一人时,记得说过后要忘掉那些让你难过的事。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">16、一定要有几个异性朋友,没有非分之想.就是关键时</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">候,帮你出出主意的好友。<br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">17、学会承受痛苦自己调整心态。有些话,适合烂在心里</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">,有些痛苦,适合无声无息的忘记。当</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">经历过,你成长了,自己知道就好。很多改变,不需要你自己说,别人会看得到</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">。<br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">18、能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的,</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。忍耐然后</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">思索问题的根源最后平静心态解决它 。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">19、不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭,解决的时间不要超过24</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">围内,先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">生活可以很复杂以可以很简单,我们不要总是活在忧伤和痛</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">苦之中,爱自己多一点!不为一些不</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;">值得的事物而觉得生活总是那么的痛苦无助,人生的方向盘掌握在我们自己手里,有一天阳光大道等着我们走,放开自己,高傲的活着,只要自己幸福开心的,痛苦过去的伤就让他随风而去吧....告诉世界我们属于现在而不是过去!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div></div></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-9632876251839554732010-03-02T09:04:00.001-08:002010-03-02T09:04:38.706-08:00Why to Delete a Facebook Account<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; color: rgb(32, 64, 99); ">Facebook introduced me to world of internet social networking. I was in an orchestral board meeting and I mentioned "the rolodex." I got real laughter. "You use a rolodex?" I was bewildered. I had not heard that rolodex was out. "People use facebook now." Well, I didn't know that facebook had replaced the rolodex, but the one telling me was a high level manager in a large Bay Area company. I figured he must be right. "Rolodex" was truly funny to several people in that meeting.<br /><br />I had joined facebook without really thinking about what I was doing. Sometimes I make picks for the games of the NCAA basketball tournament. I decided to make them on the CBS sportsline website. I liked the way that my choices looked in their proper place on the bracket on the computer screen. To use their bracket I had to join this "facebook" thing I had vaguely heard of. This was several years ago. After I signed up, I started getting requests in my email box, asking me to be a friend. I always said, "no," and deleted them. I hadn't even looked at my facebook site. About six months ago, I decided to become more active at facebook because it was something my son was going to be involved with and I wanted him to have accountability.<br /><br />I learned a little about facebook. There were many aspects about it that I never liked. I was always uncomfortable there. Everyone in our family has now deleted his facebook account. I'm going to tell my problems with facebook. This will give someone reasons why to delete a facebook account. I'm not expecting that any one of these reasons will be enough to persuade someone to drop it like I did, but all of them combined should at least get you thinking. Once I deleted my account, I have not only not missed it, but it has been wonderful to lose it.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">1. Facebook hinders scriptural values.</span><br /><br />Facebook wasn't around when David Wells wrote <span style="font-style: italic; ">No Place for Truth</span>, but if it was, I think he would have written about it in that book.<br /><br /><blockquote style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 10px; border-right-width: 6px; border-right-style: solid; border-right-color: rgb(216, 231, 247); color: rgb(71, 127, 186); ">Having turned inward in a search for meaning, we turn outward in a search for direction, scanning others for the social signals they emit regarding what is in and what is out, what is desirable and what is not. . . . This person is oriented not to inner values but to other people. It is in the peer group that acceptance is found and outcasts are named. . . . Where once people took pride in accomplishments and in their character, [they] think only of how they stand with others. . . . Once people worked to achieve tangible ends, to accomplish things. Now, such accomplishments are of far less significance than one's "image." Once people worked; now they manipulate. Once people sweated; now they seduce. Once people wished to be respected, to have their accomplishments recognized; now they wish to be envied, regardless of whether they are envied for anything they have actually accomplished.</blockquote><br />This characteristic of modernity does not orient itself toward God, but toward people. It influences away from judging based on scriptural values and toward judging based upon a societal norm.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">2. Facebook alters the biblical understanding of friendship.</span><br /><br />To be a friend at facebook, just click. Normally I'm careful with whom I choose as friends. I might be able to be a friend to someone, but someone can't be a friend to me without fulfilling certain characteristics. James tells us (4:4) that friendship with the world is enmity with God. I can't have enmity with God, so I can restrain myself in my choice of friends. I'm to have no company with certain people and mark and avoid others. People in your "friends" list at facebook might be people that would never join my church. We don't believe or practice the same. I don't want to call them my friends. In so doing, I believe I'm just dumbing down what the Bible says about a friend. Here's something else that Dr. Carl Trueman said about it:<br /><br /><blockquote style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 10px; border-right-width: 6px; border-right-style: solid; border-right-color: rgb(216, 231, 247); color: rgb(71, 127, 186); ">The way of connecting with people on Facebook is, apparently, to `friend' somebody. That the noun has become a verb is scarcely cause for concern; but the cheapening of the word surely is. Simply to be linked to someone on the internet is not true friendship; yet the use of the word creates the image that such is the case, or at least blurs the difference between casual internet acquaintance and somebody for whom one might have real affinity, affection, and concern. . . . Further, as the language of friendship is hijacked and cheapened by these internet social networks, this cheapening itself is part and parcel of a redefining of intimacy based upon the erosion of the boundaries between the public and private.<br /></blockquote><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">3. Facebook sets wicked things before your eyes.</span><br /><br />I can't control the content of what I look at on my facebook page. I not only look at things I don't want to see, but I invite others to look at them when they look at my facebook page. Pictures, advertisements, and statements show up that I don't want to see or have others see either.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">4. Facebook causes people to stumble.</span><br /><br />I might be able to handle some of what my "friends" believe and practice, but not everyone can. I'd rather not introduce people to other people that I'd rather they didn't meet.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">5. Facebook hinders real discernment.</span><br /><br />If you were to judge each of your friends based upon a scriptural standard, you would probably lose a large number of them. But you don't. Why? You want to be sociable. It encourages you to make decisions based upon how you feel instead of what the Bible says.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">6. Facebook wastes time.</span><br /><br />I know you could argue with me on this one by pointing out other ways I waste time. You may think that I'm doing that by writing this blog. Fine. I think it's different but I'm not going to take the time to defend my blog writing right now. Here's how facebook uniquely wastes time. You open yourself up to social activity that you wouldn't choose as a good use of your minutes. You have a friend who isn't much of a friend. That friend writes on your wall. Now what do you have to do? You have to write something back to him. Don't you want to keep your choices about communication under control? You have created new things to take away time from something productive. If you have facebook, you've got to maintain it. Is it worth maintaining?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">7. Facebook encourages busybodying.</span><br /><br />I've had people ask to be my friend whom I know don't care about me. I know they don't really want to be my friend. What is it that people want? They want to find out what you're doing. I'm not ashamed of what I'm doing, but I believe that this kind of voyeurism fits the biblical criteria of the busybody. It influences others toward being one. "Why did so and so become his friend and not mine?" "I wonder why he has so many friends or who those people are."<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">8. Facebook hinders real relationships.</span><br /><br />Do you think that a real relationship is sitting in front of a computer screen at 11:00 at night? When you could be talking to a real person either in person or by phone, you are constructing your facebook persona.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">9. Facebook doesn't like bold, biblical Christianity.</span><br /><br />Watch your "friends" list shrink when you confront people about something sinful on their wall, in a photo, or in a comment. Facebook isn't designed for confrontational Christianity, the kind we see Jesus do in the Bible. Typical facebook brings up something essentially secular, earthly, or temporal. You then interact on the same level, training yourself to do more of it. It is a bastion of compromise.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">10. Facebook redefines biblical community.</span><br /><br />In a real community people do things for each other. Facebook isn't about doing anything to help anyone. I'm not saying that nothing can be done, but it doesn't encourage that. It encourages a fake community. You can join a cause, but what does the cause really do? When you're asked to join a cause, for instance, against internet pornography. That is good. That's a wonderful thing to be against. I'm even for being in a group that is against it. It might even make me think more about being against it. But how are you helping get rid of pornography? What you could do is talk to someone that has an immodest picture up and ask him to take it down. And I really am part of a group that is already against it---my church.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">11. Facebook offers way too much acceptance.</span><br /><br />Much of what is on facebook should be rejected. However, facebook is all about affirming. You affirm people that really need confrontation. Since very often you can't really know the person you're talking to, you could easily be reaffirming someone with a lukewarm, worldly brand of Christianity that isn't honoring to Christ.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">12. Facebook is too public.</span><br /><br />Yes, too public. What do I mean? It offers people an opportunity to snoop around and get information. I recognize that you have means on facebook to control that, but it still is a place for trolling perverts. I don't want to be on the same playing field with them or encourage others to be there with me....and him.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">13. Facebook preys on fleshly tendencies of man's nature.</span><br /><br />Facebook makes you think too much about yourself. Your status shouldn't matter. Someone shouldn't have to return a comment just because you've made one. Facebook fits the narcissism of our day in which men have become lovers of their own selves. What difference does it make how many friends you have as long as you have the friend of sinners Himself, the Lord Jesus.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">14. Facebook breaks down decent language.</span><br /><br />You can talk right on facebook, but it doesn't encourage it. What it encourages is drivel. We should want to elevate one another, to bring up the level of discourse. That doesn't occur when these abbreviations and slang are used. Young people even feel pressured to bow to talking like this. It attacks spelling, grammar, syntax, and cogent thought. It's lazy speech and many times gutter language.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">15. Facebook spawns fraudulence and hypocrisy.</span><br /><br />You don't have to be who you are on facebook. You can create a whole different persona of yourself that is a lie. It spawns this kind of activity. Here's what Trueman wrote on this:<br /><br /><blockquote style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 10px; border-right-width: 6px; border-right-style: solid; border-right-color: rgb(216, 231, 247); color: rgb(71, 127, 186); ">On Facebook, I can be anybody I want to be: an eighteen year old Californian with a six-pack, good teeth, a sun tan and a pilot's license; or even a 25 year old blonde beauty queen from North Carolina with a degree in astrophysics. I can become the ultimate in self-created beings - a factor which, I am sure, also partially explains the massive, if little noted, popularity of role-playing video games in the modern world. In virtual world, be it Facebook or the undersea city portrayed in Bioshock, I can be anyone I choose to be. I am the Creator; or at least, I have the potential to think I am.</blockquote><br />Even if you sort of know who you're talking to, the person can take advantage of the anonymity of it.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">16. Facebook tempts toward infidelity.</span><br /><br />I've seen married women talking to younger men on facebook, legitimizing this kind of relationship and giving a false boost to the boy's ego. Her picture might be the most inviting, even a little risque, putting thoughts in his mind that he shouldn't have. Men like to hear someone boast on them, and perhaps they're not getting enough of that at home. These places and others stimulate that kind of activity. Men and women mix in unhealthy ways that would be discouraged in a different setting. Her husband may not be talking to her like she is talked to. She doesn't have to work at it. She can just go to her facebook to get what she needs.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">17. Facebook makes you a consumer in a day when we need more producers.</span><br /><br />Facebook is a company. They sell ads. They make money off of you. You may not buy anything, but you are another statistic for them to use to sell ads. In other words, facebook is using you. You may think that you are using facebook, but I would say that the owners think otherwise, especially as they laugh all the way to the bank.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">18. Facebook is an easy temptation when you need to be getting something done---really done.</span><br /><br />You need to write. Go to facebook instead. Homework not done. Gotta do facebook. Need to memorize some Scripture. Facebook is there. Haven't exercised. Oh well, let's facebook. Trueman again writes:<br /><br /><blockquote style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 10px; border-right-width: 6px; border-right-style: solid; border-right-color: rgb(216, 231, 247); color: rgb(71, 127, 186); ">Well, the virtual world is new but it is here to stay; and it will no doubt continue to shape human behavior and self-understanding. We cannot ignore it but neither should we simply allow it to dictate to us who we are and how we think. Thus, we must teach people by precept and example that real life is lived primarily in real time in real places by real bodies. Pale and pimply bloggers who spend most of their spare time onanistically opining about themselves and their issues and in befriending pals made up of pixels are not living life to the full; nor are those whose lives revolve around videogames; rather they are human amoebas, subsisting in a bizarre non-world which involves no risk to themselves, no giving of themselves to others, no true vulnerability, no commitment, no self-sacrifice, no real meaning or value. To borrow a phrase from Thoreau, the tragedy of such is that, when they come to die, they may well discover that they have never actually lived.<br /><br />For myself, I rejoice that I grew up before the web and the videogame supplanted the real world of real friendships, real discussions, real lives. I did not spend my youth growing obese and developing Vitamin D deficiency in front of an illuminated screen, living my life through the medium of pixels.</blockquote><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">19. Facebook causes more facebook.</span><br /><br />Very few people could handle facebook in a scriptural manner. It offers so many temptations. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.</span>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-52445536991009844102010-03-02T00:38:00.000-08:002010-03-02T00:58:44.353-08:00泪了~<div>爱情只属于俊男美女么?</div><div><br /></div><div>这次真的是泪了~</div><div><br /></div><div>我以为我很坚强,但是当我知道事情的真相的时候,心很痛~</div><div><br /></div><div>我以为他也喜欢我,所以才会对我好~</div><div><br /></div><div>原来真的是我自作多情~</div><div><br /></div><div>如果不是喜欢我,为什么要对我那么好?</div><div><br /></div><div>你以为对每个人好就是好人的表现吗?</div><div><br /></div><div>不是这样的,你会让人误会的~</div><div><br /></div><div>我很幸苦,很受伤,又不可以让好朋友知道,免得她觉得难过~</div><div><br /></div><div>他喜欢上你不是你的错,只是我真的觉得很难过很难过~</div><div><br /></div><div>好想回家,只有家人不会嫌弃我~</div><div><br /></div><div>我就是我,为什么我找不到喜欢我的人?</div><div><br /></div><div>我真的那么不漂亮吗?我真的不吸引人吗?我的条件真的那么差吗?</div><div><br /></div><div>找不到自信,找不到~</div><div><br /></div><div>其实也不可以怪别人,是我自己傻~</div><div><br /></div><div>傻女,不是每个对你好的人你就要喜欢他~</div><div><br /></div><div>你要学习把自己的心收好,不要轻易把心给出去~</div><div><br /></div><div>当心碎的时候,只会让自己很难过很难过~</div><div><br /></div><div>我需要时间康复~我需要时间冷静~真的很难过,真的真的很难过~</div><div><br /></div><div>恩恩</div><div>2010年3月2日</div><div>1700</div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-67890974282549272672010-02-28T05:07:00.000-08:002010-02-28T05:09:14.744-08:00做不成男女朋友,做个特别的朋友<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">两个可能彼此相爱、喜欢的人,</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是,又不属于友情、爱情、亲情中的任何一种, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />彼此不能成为男女朋友,只能做个特别的朋友…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许是为了朋友之间的义气,不能归属。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许是为了顾及家人的意见,不能归位。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许是为了自己的前程,不能承诺。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许是相遇太早,还不懂得珍惜对方。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许是相遇太晚,彼此身边已经有了另一个人。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许是回头太迟,对方已不再等待。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许彼此在捉摸对方的心,而迟迟无法跨出界线…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />彼此仍能找到塌实的感觉, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />仍然会保持不隶属任何一种感情的关系。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是彼此心底清楚, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />对这个人,你比朋友还多了一份关心。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />因为有了彼此,心里总是被幸福塞的满满的…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />即使不能彼此名正言顺的牵着手逛街, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />还是可以做无所不谈的朋友。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />彼此有喜欢的人,口头上会说不吃醋, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />心里却会觉得胃疼…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />对方遇到困难时, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />会尽全力伸出援助之手, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不会计较谁又欠了谁。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />对方生病了, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">会缴尽脑汁找药方, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />恨不得变成护士,陪伴在身旁…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />每个人这辈子, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />心中都有过这幺一个特别的朋友, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />很矛盾的行为。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />一开始可能不甘心只做朋友的, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但久了,突然发现这样最好。 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />宁愿这样关心对方的心情, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />总好过彼此生活在一起受伤害…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />做不成男女朋友, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />当个特别的朋友, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />有什么不好呢? </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你心中的这个特别的朋友...? 是谁呢 </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />很多的感情, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />都败在了现实的面前…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />友情可以演变成为爱情, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />爱情最终进化成为亲情, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />彼此就将友情直接进步到亲情…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />人生不过百年…… </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">能牵手的时候,请别只是肩并肩, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />能拥抱的时候,请别只是手牵手, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />能在一起的时候,请别轻易分开, </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />能成为红颜知己,请别刻意离开! </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />珍惜彼此之间塌实的感觉</span></span></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-90223525386804255912010-02-25T07:18:00.000-08:002010-02-25T07:20:23.137-08:00如果我只是【过客】,请不要对我好!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">如果我真的很不重要,如果我只是你生命中的过客</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那么请你,请你不要对我好,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不要让我发现自己已经习惯你、依赖你到无法自拔。<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />从一开始,我只是陪你走过一段人生的小路程。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />如果注定会分离,就别让我去抽离这种习惯!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />因为伤不起,因为承受不起。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许曾经想过封闭起自己,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />只是遇到了你,以及你们,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />让我觉得有支撑下去的勇气!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />可是有的时候真的是太在乎,太容易受伤了。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不经意的知道很多。<br /><br /><br /><br />是什么感觉呢?就像自己落水了,然后在绝望的那一刻,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />有一只手伸过来带给我生的希望,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />就在我真的真的想要把自己生命,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所有的希望交个那个人的时候,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />却丢下我走了,任由我往水里沉!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />从天堂掉下地狱。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />知不知道,你真的对我是很重要,很重要的,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是当我知道原来你不曾像我这样想过,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />当我知道你根本就不曾在乎过,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />或者把我当一个玩耍的工具时,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />才觉得自己是真的傻,真的笨吧!<br /><br /><br /><br />像以前遇到的很多人,说着很好听很好听的话,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />让我以为自己仿佛是他的整个世界,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />可是就要去相信去接受的时候,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />却让我知道,原来一切都是假的。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />为什么我拼命告诉自己不能轻易相信别人?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />却还是选择了相信。我相信的人,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你对我很重要,或许我是真的没有长大,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所以我喜欢去相信你,去依赖你!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />比其他人更在乎你的一言一行,也许你不曾感觉到,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但那是真的,那种感情,跟爱情,友情,亲情都没有关系。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />特别得说不出来。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /><br /><br /><br />有一天,你出什么事了,我也会焦虑会害怕,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">有一天,自己很难过很难过了,想要逃的时候,也怕你会担</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">心。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">把你当作我生命中很重要的人,但是有一天如果你不管我了</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">丢下我了,连话都不想跟我说了,也许不仅仅是难过,还有</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">……<br /><br /><br /><br />如果我真的是无所谓有无所谓无的,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那么从一开始就别对我好,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />因为也许你一点点的温暖就会想让我拥有整个太阳!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">不要给我施舍的好,不要给我同情的好,一旦我习惯了这些</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">好,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />当你转身即走的时候,留下的除了一道道伤痕还有什么呢?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这是自己曾经很想说的话,现在转过来!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />现在想来,这只是青春的必经之路,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />有痛苦,有甜蜜,回过头来看,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />留下的只是淡淡的回忆!~</span></span></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-61604777318255039152010-02-25T07:14:00.000-08:002010-02-25T07:18:35.805-08:00痛了...自然就会放手了~<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">一个苦者找到一个和尚倾诉他的心事。</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他说:“我放不下一些事,放不下一些人。”</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />和尚说:“没有什么东西是放不下的。”</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他说:“这些事和人我就偏偏放不下。”</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">和尚让他拿着一个茶杯,然后就往里面倒热水,一直倒到水</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">溢出来。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />苦者被烫到马上松开了手。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">和尚说:“这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的,痛了,你自</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">然就会放下。”<br /><br /><br /><br />你可能觉得难过</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />因为无论你对他怎么好他都不领情</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他不是看不到</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他只是装作看不到</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />或者他根本不想看到</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你觉得自己很喜欢他</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />甚至觉得再没有一个人可以像你那么喜欢他</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你用尽全力对他好</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />把他看的比自己还重要</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />有什么事情第一个就想到他<br /><br /><br /><br />联系不到他的时候你担心他担心的快疯了</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />然而你有没有想过</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这并不在你的责任范围</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />而且很有可能他是在躲着你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他受不了你对他那么好</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不要一直发短信给他</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不要一直找他</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你也许只是想找他说说话</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你觉得那很正常不算苛求</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是也许他并不这么想</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /><br /><br /><br />记住你的想法不代表他的想法</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你是真的不求回报的在喜欢他吗</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你扪心自问一下</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你确定不用他回报什么吗</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那为什么你会难过</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />若是真的一无所求</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你又怎么会觉得难过呢</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所以别觉得你那么爱他是伟大的</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许她根本不在乎你怎么为他付出</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />有时候你给他的爱或许是种负担<br /><br /><br /><br />这种负担只会让他更加想远离你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />因为他不想亏欠你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />别事事为他担心为他张罗</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你觉得他没有你不行</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你觉得别人做不到你那么完善</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是你要清楚</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">你不是他要的那个人</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你做的再完善也敌不过人家不做</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />自然会有人为他担心为他着急</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不用你来费心<br /><br /><br /><br />那个位置本来就不是你的</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你何必硬要挤上去呢</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />也许曾经你们是相爱过的</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是请记住那是曾经</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />过去的就是过去了</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />如果大家真的适合在一起</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那么当初就不会分开</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />无论是谁提的分手都一样</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">这段感情曾经就是存在破裂点的</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不管是谁错结果都是一个你们分开了<br /><br /><br /><br />分开以后</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />如果一方试图想挽回而另一方没有同意的话</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那么这段感情就是过去了</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他是理智的因为他已经明白了两个人不适合</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />而你还一遍一遍的告诉自己</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你们当初如何如何相爱</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不可能那么容易就分手的</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这样只会让你更加难以放弃</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />却不会让对方再次回头选择你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />除非大家都有意要和好</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /><br /><br /><br />否则你一个巴掌是不可能拍响的</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所以尽早打消这个念头吧</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />至于他是不是有意我想你自己心里比谁都明白</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不要觉得自己有多可怜或者把自己弄的很可怜</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这样做一点意思也没有</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他不会因为你可怜而喜欢你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你说道理你都懂只是你做不好</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不是你做不好是你不想做</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你不是怕忘记他你是怕他忘了你吧</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />别说什么他离不开你的<br /><br /><br /><br />其实分明就是你离不开他</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他若是离不开你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />他就不会不要你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />整天死死巴着人家不放的人是你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不懂事的人是你</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />难道你没看出来吗</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />喜欢他不是你的错</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />想关心他不是你的错</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />控制不住自己不是你的错</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />但是那是你的方式<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />忘了吧.所有你留恋的.你回忆的.你拥有过的.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那些.都已是记忆.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />缺失并不可怕.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />可怕的.是无法面对.<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />勇敢看着镜子中的自己吧.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这个悲伤软弱满面憔悴的自己.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这也是你.成长中的你.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />这个你.正在逐渐死去.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />新的你.即将重生.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />找寻你的路.你的未来.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你知道的.所有的浩劫.都是成长的祭奠.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />做最好的自己.即使.一个人.<br /><br /><br /><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">傻孩子</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你无法轻易忘记放弃.是因为你付出过.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />付出了.她就会像柱子一样扎根在心.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不要刻意去逃避.刻意忘记.那只会让你更痛苦.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />绕开这个柱子.寻找未来的幸福生活吧.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那里.有你的理想.<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />开始新的习惯吧.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />习惯.早上不再有人工闹铃.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />习惯.每天一个人生活.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />习惯.一个人过生日.一个人行走.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你逃不掉.逃不掉的.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那么.就勇敢面对.现实.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />现实是.她已离开.一切.画上了句点.<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />好.好.尽情发泄吧.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />剥开自己的心.用文字.用声音.用所有能发泄的方式.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />泄完了.就要振作.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />看吧.你失去的.其实微不足道.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />还有那么多人关心着你.以不同的方式.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所以.你并不孤独.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />正是这样的失去.让你看清现在所拥有的幸福.<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />别哭.别再哭.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />不值得.真的.不值得了</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">.<br />把过去尘封吧.别委屈.别不甘心.别不接受.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />开始新的旅程吧.去遇见新的风景.新的际遇.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />做你该做的事吧.有很多事.等待着你完成呢.<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所有的人都对你有信心.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />所以.你也要充满信心.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你是坚强的.积极的.乐观的.洒脱的.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">以前是.以后也会是.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />总有一天.那个活力无穷傻气无尽的女金刚会复活.<br /><br /><br /><br />傻孩子.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />生活褪去了曾有的颜色.暂时宁静.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />别沉沦在这片宁静里.那会毁掉你.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你要明白.虽然残忍.但这个决定.足够正确.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">现在的生活.不是你想要的.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />为了你的理想.你必须学会适时放弃.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />给对方最好的关怀.就是.变的更好.更强大.更幸福.<br /><br /><br /><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">现在我对你很好、很好、很好,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />你不需要、你无所谓、你不在乎,你不珍惜。。。。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />当某天,你被伤害,想起我。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />那时的我再也做不到像现在这样一如既往、不顾一切的<br /><br /><br /><br />对你好了。。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">。<br />因为那时的我,已经将你放低。。。。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />原来,放低一个人,最后是被对方逼出来的。。。。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />其实这个世界,真的没有非要谁不可,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />走自己的路,别回头</span></span></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-3909581003681588762009-11-28T10:08:00.000-08:002009-11-28T10:23:23.461-08:00Sleepless Night~Again, a sleepless night~Tomorrow is a very important day~Actually every Sunday is very important to me~<div><br /></div><div>I was trying to sleep early few hours ago and since i failed to do so~I starting reading book, hopefully can get to sleep~However, after i finished the whole book, I still couldn't get to sleep~</div><div><br /></div><div>So i on my laptop and get online~The 1st thing i did was on Facebook and on my RC~Haha, hopefully I'm not addicted to Facebook~^^</div><div><br /></div><div>It is not a good thing to be addicted to Facebook~I dun wan to act like tat irresponsible doctor who caused his patient's death just because he's addicted to Facebook when he's having an operation~</div><div><br /></div><div>Anyway, then I think of my blog~It has been a long time since I last blog~So decided to write a simple blog and also to try to feel sleepy and get back to sleep~Ah~</div><div><br /></div><div>Till now, I'm still awake~What else can I do to get to sleep? Every time when I'm over-excited or nervous or stressed, I couldn't get to sleep~I really dun wan to admit this cause it shows that I'm a person who cannot endure stress which is not true~(At least to me it is not the case @.@)</div><div><br /></div><div>Recently, The thought of having someone beside me keep on pester me~I keep on telling myself it's not the time yet and also I'm not sure what I wan~I'm currently staying alone in Penang~Without my family and friends (I mean U friends), it's kind of lonely and that's y the thought keep on pestering me~</div><div><br /></div><div>Of course, I have my church's family to support me, somehow I'm feeling quite empty~It's a feeling very hard to describe~N considering my age, for 21 years, I've not been in a relationship before~Haha~I know it's very bad to get into a relationship just because I feel like getting it~That's y I keep on persuade myself not to do silly thing, but it's very hard for me to get rid of the thought to be silly~Ah~</div><div><br /></div><div>I dunno what I want now~Things seem to be complicated or just me making things complicated? I dunno~Okay, I know what I should do now~Stop typing and try to get back to sleep~My brain is not working properly and that's y I'm talking nonsense here~K then, I shall stop here~ll try to update asap though I know nobody is reading~</div><div><br /></div><div>=En En=</div><div>=0225=</div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-72764241909648239862009-11-03T13:00:00.000-08:002009-11-03T13:20:50.545-08:00Dear Lai, I haven't my blog for a long time d~<br /><br />Sometimes when I've mood to post, my internet is not working so i cannot do anything about it~<br /><br />There're also time where the internet is functioning well while i dun hav the mood to write anything~<br /><br />Today's great~I've the mood and the internet is functioning well and so I'm writing my blog post now~<br /><br />Ok, I know I'm just talking nonsense all the way, but my nonsense got points wor~^^<br /><br />Anyway, lets get back to the topic~<br /><br />Now, it's 5 o'clock in the morning~Dun think i wake up so early to study la~I'm not tat guai~<br /><br />I'm just having sleeping problem recently~<br /><br />Starting fr last Sat (31/10/09), I've been having problem to sleep tight~<br /><br />I'm tired, extremely tired but i just can't sleep tight~<br /><br />I'll get up in the middle of the night and struggling to get back to sleep~<br /><br />I didn't get any nap in the afternoon, so it's impossible to say tat i sleep too much in the day time tat's y i can't sleep at night~this theory doesn't apply on me~<br /><br />Is it really because of stressed? Stressed could be desserts if you could reverse~<br /><br />I've been working hard to achieve tat~<br /><br />I'm trying to take things easy and make myself relax~<br /><br />May ah, I'm not lying about everything is ok~<br /><br />seriously everything is ok and under control~<br /><br />but y can't i just sleep tight?! I tend to get very excited and awake~<br /><br />My body is tired but I'm mentally awake~They are not coordinating well~<br /><br />Sigh~How ah? I dun think my body can take this in long term~<br /><br />In fact, i can feel tat my body's protesting~they nid sleep, tight and enough sleep~<br /><br />Sigh, wat can i do to make myself asleep?!<br /><br />Act, I'm having another problem in mind~<br /><br />I've been teaching tuition and not getting any paid~<br /><br />Not only tat, I've been paying petrol wif my own money~<br /><br />I dunno how 2 tell the person in charge that even if u're not planing to pay me, could u pls kindly cover my petrol's fees?!<br /><br />I feel like I'm putting my time, money and effort and gain nothing~<br /><br />I mean of cuz i get satisfaction as a teacher to see my students improve~<br /><br />but other than that, I'm doing for dunno wat reason and it's very illogical~(somehow stupid)<br /><br />Well, I'm still thinking of ways to sort things out, but I'm hoping the person in charge could be more automatic la~<br /><br />Talking about money is tough~<br /><br />I think i shall stop here temporary~<br /><br />I need to try again to get back to sleep~<br /><br />I'll try to update more often, here and there, bit by bit~<br /><br />Love u all~<br /><br />=En En=<br />=0520=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-65259928519856990102009-10-03T07:29:00.000-07:002009-10-03T07:39:07.387-07:00Mid-autumn Festival~A lot of things happen recently yet I've not updated for long~Well, where should i start?<br /><br />Ok, start wif my U-life~<br /><br />Currently, I'm doing my last assignment and after that ll be my Final~<br /><br />So really need to be prepared~<br /><br />Recently, I have got a car from someone because I need it to work~<br /><br />So working part time now as a tuition teacher~<br /><br />Its not an easy job absolutely and somehow it's tougher than teaching kindergarten kids~<br /><br />Sigh~But no worry, I'll hang on and do my best~<br /><br />Today is mid-autumn festival~Wat ppl usually do on this day?<br /><br />Eat mooncake, look at the moon, drink green tea and display lantern~<br /><br />Well, i did none of it~I'm not feeling well act~<br /><br />I din sleep well last nite, then today I'm supposed to help out in Dewan Sri Pinang for a concert~<br /><br />Well, I'm asked to reach there by 12~<br /><br />So i went out at 11 to make sure i reach there early~<br /><br />I'm driving alone so the day before i hav asked my fren to teach me how 2 go thr~<br /><br />My dear fren did bring me all the way to Dewan Sri Pinang and all the way back to my house~<br /><br />So i thought everything ll be ok and 1 hour earlier is more than enough~<br /><br />However, I took the wrong way and straight away I'm on the Penang Bridge where there's no turning point back to Penang~<br /><br />Sigh~wat can i do?<br /><br />I go all the way to Butterworth and then all the way back to Penang~<br /><br />I buy the lesson for RM 7, excluding the petrol~<br /><br />poor me~Anyway, I'm still grateful for today~<br /><br />Thanks a lot Guo Feng Gor Gor, he guides me all the way back to Penang from Butterworth~<br /><br />Phew~At tat time, nobody pick up my phone but him~<br /><br />Ya, i should treat him a mooncake~Haha~<br /><br />K then, i noe this post sounds a bit bored and meaningless~<br /><br />Basically its jz a brief report on my life~ll update in detail soon, I hope~<br /><br />Miss n love u lot~<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2240=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-58538596414797273322009-09-04T21:00:00.000-07:002009-09-04T21:20:52.804-07:00A Day Full of Nonsense~Last night, I came back late. By the time I reached home is 2 a.m. Yap, I know it is very late and I should have gone back home earlier. The story goes this way. In the afternoon (4.9.2009), May called. She asked me to go for lunch with her. But I’m so bad, I rejected her for Special A Class (it is a Japanese animation). I keep on watching and watching and watching. I do nothing else but watching the animation. At last, May called again, asking me to go for dinner with her. I feel so bad when I know all the while she has been alone all by herself. Then I asked myself, “What kind of friend you are? You leave your friend alone for animation?”<br /><br />So I went out with her for dinner and movie. It is fun. Really, I have no regret for spending time with her cause she’s my best friend in U. The best part comes after movie. We want to go back to USM from Gurney and passed by Green Lane Mcd to get an ice-cream. Guess what? We just realized how big Penang could be. We totally lost our way. I still remember, we came out from Gurney at around 11.30p.m and we spent more than 1 hour going back to USM without getting the ice-cream. Sigh, horrible? I know it’s horrible but I can do nothing about it. Anyway, on our way back to USM, somehow Won Lin appears on my mind and I just feel like calling her. Thanks to her, we didn’t go round and round the Penang the whole night. We rushed back to USM and decided to give up our precious, sweet ice-cream. So after hanging out with Won Lin, we go back home. Guess what I did after I reached home? Yap, of course, I take my shower 1st. Then, continue with my animation. So I ended up sleeping at 4 in the morning.<br /><br />I tell myself; no way am I going to watch anything the next day. I really need to study. So here I am, after posting this post, I’m going to study. So let’s pray together that I would really study. Who knows what will I do after half an hour? Haha. I shall end here. Take care and have a nice day~<br /><br />=En En=<br />=1220=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-21817984878223237792009-09-03T08:22:00.000-07:002009-09-03T08:44:32.061-07:00No title~I always feel that it is very tough for me to think of a good title for my blog post. Today, I have decided not to put any title for my post. I just want to share my feeling and thought and why should put a title for it. I’m not making the story and therefore, I have no title for it. Sorry for all the lame sentences. I just feel like doing some nonsense.<br /><br />Today, Won Lin is asking help from us. She really needs somebody to help her in her debate circle. Actually, I really want to join her but thinking of every night’s stay back and preparation for the competition, I think I’m too old for it. Okay, I admit that it is just an excuse. I couldn’t commit in it as I could foresee the result. I don’t want to create more trouble for myself and I absolutely wouldn’t want to spoil the friendship between me and Won Lin. By the way, why am I so interested in joining the debate team in the first place? Well, I think I could develop well and learn a lot of new things from it. I joined debate before when I’m in form 3. It was a sweet memory; at least, thinking back from now, it is indeed sweet. Actually, it wasn’t that sweet at that time. We do quarrel and the team doesn’t really function well. Though I’m the leader for the team, I don’t feel my presence is important in the team. It seems to me like I’m the least important person in the team and even without me, they can still make it and maybe even better than when I’m in the team. Opps, I’m a bit off.<br /><br />Back to the topic, so what is my topic? I don’t even have a topic and that’s why my thoughts run wildly and randomly. Normally, I don’t have class on Thursday. Thanks to our National Day (Independence Day) we are forced to make class replacement. The morning class is not that interesting, probably because all of us are only half-awake and could hardly focus on the discussion. By the time we are awake, the class ends. So I don’t really contribute much in the morning’s discussion. At night, I have another class replacement. Well, night class is always very excited. I’m sorry that I have not finished the book when I enter the class. Anyway, it is a very interesting class. We’re discussing about the book “The Buddha of the Suburbia” by Hanif Kureishi. I cannot comment anything about the book as I have not completed the book. I’ll share my thought when I complete the book. ^^<br /><br />The whole day I feel like watching movie. Too bad, I never get the chance to watch it tonight. There are a lot of nice movies but I just can’t get companion to watch with me. Sigh.<br /><br />My mind cannot function well anymore for the time being. Guess I’m too tired, so I better get a early rest and have a sweet dream. Take care everyone and have a nice day.<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2345=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-57410886799571046802009-08-30T02:20:00.000-07:002009-08-30T06:14:22.172-07:00Just some Sharing~~I’m feeling very upset and tired now. Today is my 1st time to lead the worship team in Sg. Ara Baptist Church. I have been worship leader at the age of 14 in my own church. I’m not trying to show off or whatever, but I think I have done my best today.<br /><br />I’am so nervous until I can’t sleep tight last night, I keep on thinking what I’m going to do today.<br />I keep on telling myself not to be nervous and it’s better for me to sleep early than imagine all kind of nonsense. I just can’t help to be nervous. It’s a totally different church, different people and different way.<br /><br />I appreciate the church for giving me the chance to serve. It’s not easy, I know, to give the opportunity to the newbie to lead the “worship leader” role. I really think that I’ve done my best and after the Sunday Service, I still think that I’ve done a great job. I got a lot of good feedback and of course, I’m happy. Not to say I’m proud but happy in a way that I’ve done things well.<br />There’s one particular feedback that really make me think about it over and over.<br />“It” is saying (sorry, no offend, I’m not trying to objectify the person, just that I don’t want to make the person’s gender obvious, so I use “it”) that “Well, perhaps you have done quite well today and I could see the potential in you. But, somehow I think I can’t feel the existence of the Holy Spirit through your leading. Perhaps you’re not well-prepared”.<br /><br />Actually, I feel very hurt at that time. It’s assumption that “I’m not well-prepared” hurts a lot. I mean you could say things like you have space of improvement or I believe you can do it better next time. “I think maybe you’re not well-prepared” really hurt me. I mean how you judge a person to say that he/she is not well-prepared when you’re not with he/her when she’s preparing the whole thing?<br /><br />That’s my 1st thought when it’s talking to me. I’m quite upset but I manage to calm myself and show a very calm look and even to discuss the whole situation with it. After the conversation, I’m feeling very depress and I just wish I could find someone to talk about it. Is it the worship leader’s role to make the audiences feel the existence of the Holy Spirit? I thought my job is to lead the audiences to worship God and somehow the audiences have to play their role? All the thoughts keep running on my mind. I can’t stop myself from feeling upset and depress.<br /><br />Today, the pastor is teaching us to do according to God’s will and the key is to be humble. We have to let go and let God. So I started thinking, the comment from “it”, is it the clue that God wants me to think about it? Am I being too proud of myself and forget to give all the honors to God? Am I being very self-centered that what people said about me is unacceptable to me?<br />I was struggling to come out with a conclusion. I hope that someone could just tell me that “Yeah, it’s your fault and you should change” or “Nope, it has nothing to do with you. You don’t have to be so upset”. Arrgh~ So what should I do?<br /><br />I’m thinking that maybe “it” doesn’t mean the way I interpret and things are not just as bad as I thought. Perhaps I should just treat it as a reminder and try to do better next time. Yeah~<br />I shouldn’t be so upset, it’s nothing big deal. Everything will be fine. Yeah~<br /><br />By the way, I have just a very nice movie just now during youth. It makes me think about it and maybe some of the concept I could apply in my daily life. It’s a testimony about how God could do things which are out of your expectation and imagination. The key is whether you have faith in God. Sometimes, actually every time, I’m very proud of myself. I depend a lot on myself, not that I never pray or distrusted God. I always think that I should at least do something so that I could lighten God’s burden. How silly I am?!<br /><br />Can you imagine? I’m being so kind to offer some help to the almighty God. Yea, this movie makes me think and know how silly I am. God doesn’t need my help at all. He’s the creator of the world and he’s the master of my life. I might face a lot of difficulty and I might not be able to settle it myself. What can I do? Just leave it to God. Have faith, pray and leave it to God. He’ll make things done out of your imagination and expectation.<br /><br />I have learned my lesson today. I just have to do my best and leave the rest to God. “With God, everything is possible”. Maybe I could just apply this theory to my sharing earlier. Why should I be so upset? God is taking care of everything. What I need to do is do my best and leave the rest to God.<br /><br />Basically, these are something I would like to share today. Hopefully you have gained something from it. I’m not here to preach or teach, it just a sharing of my experience. Take care and have a nice day.<br /><br />Here are sharing from my fren.<br />Always always remember,<br />When you can’t, GOD can..<br />When you are the neediest, He is the most sufficient.<br />When you are completely helpless, He is the most helpful.<br />When you are totally dependent, He is absolutely dependable.<br />When you are the weakest, He is the most able.<br />When you are most alone, He is intimately present.<br />When you feel the most useless, He is preparing you.<br /><br />When it is the darkest, He is the Only Light you need..<br />When you feel the least secure, He is your Rock and Fortress..<br />When you are the most humble, He is most gracious.<br />In the course of life,<br />God has a plan for you.<br />In the hard times of life,<br />God has a HOPE for you..<br />In all of life,<br />God holds a LOVE for you….<br /><br />I miss my home and I haven’t bought the ticket to go home during Raya. Ah, May, help me~^^<br /><br />=En En=<br />=1740=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-11474772343451971042009-08-26T08:30:00.000-07:002009-08-26T08:46:17.493-07:00Happy 21st B'day to MYSELF~~Finally 21 years old d...<br /><br />Time really flies and now I'm already 21 years old....<br /><br />From today onwards, I need to be responsible for myself d....<br /><br />I'm so blessed to hav a very nice family....<br /><br />A humuor daddy, caring mummy and a lovely sister....oh ya, not fogetting my PET dog, Blessing...^^<br /><br />Looking back, everything's so well-planned...<br /><br />I hav no trouble with my family or friends...<br /><br />everything is so smooth...<br /><br />Though I almost lost my mummy when I'm young, but God is so good to me that He actually save mummy's life...<br /><br />Moving from Penang to J.B, i hav no problem wif settling myself....<br /><br />school life is memorable and i hav some very good frens that play an important role in my life....<br /><br />I hav Jing Jing, Charmaine, Lee Ying, Wai Xin, Kok Kok and a lot more (Sorry, if i left anybody's name here)<br /><br />Attending form 6 is another exciting life...<br /><br />Its tough and boring, i wont deny that fact...<br /><br />but its wonderful with Lai Lai, Vitha and Anna...<br /><br />Lai Lai, especially, we eat together, play together, study together, lame together and her ultimate dream is bathe together...(sorry ya Lai, i nvr fulfil ur wish)<br /><br />U life all together different from my secondary school life...<br /><br />I get to meet May, Won Lin, Z, Maggie, Kah Voon, Yi Feng, my BIG wife...<br /><br />not forgetting my housemates and my ex-roomates...<br /><br />May alwiz bring me everywhere i need to go...<br /><br />she's a very nice gal and she flies all the way from KL to JB jz to attend my b'day party...<br /><br />so sweet of her...<br /><br />My Lin Lin's a smart gal, taught me a lot of reality fact...<br /><br />not forgetting Z, (my Fai Fai), haha, help me a lot to get through when I'm having troubles...<br /><br />He's a very helpful person, he would spend time explaning to me the things that taught by teacher...a very intelligent guy...<br /><br />My church family in Sg Ara Baptist Church is another sweet story...<br /><br />They accept me as one of them and taught me a lot of things...<br /><br />bout bible, bout the attitude in serving God, bout love n etc...<br /><br />So i hav my second home in Penang...^^<br /><br />Wow, so many ppl appear in my life and i cant possibly mention all...<br /><br />but I really appreciate whatever u guys hav done for me...<br /><br />Again, I wanna thank to those who attended my b'day party on 22nd of Aug...<br /><br />thank you those who celebrated my b'day on 24th of Aug in Sg. Ara Baptist church...<br /><br />thank you those who sent me all kind of b'day wishes through facebook or sms or e-mail...<br /><br />and thank you in advance to those who are going to celebrate my b'day wif me ltr...<br /><br />I feel really touched for everything u hav done for me...<br /><br />Thank you for everything and lastly, thank God for everything...<br /><br />He's the reason we know each other and he's the master of my life....<br /><br />I shall stop here...If so happen I miss out ur name, sorry bout that.....<br /><br />Take care and hav a nice day...<br /><br />miss n love u lot...<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2000=<br />=0826=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-11711929943830695442009-08-11T06:52:00.000-07:002009-08-11T07:00:51.804-07:00Jane Eyre: A Book ReviewHi all, long time din blog..(not tat long actually)<br /><br />Well, y i keep on blogging bout books recently...<br /><br />Eh, I'm studying Literature so basically I'm dealing with BOOKS~~<br /><br />so here I'm, sharing my oral presentation that I'm going to present tomorrow morning...<br /><br />Jane Eyre is one of my favourite book...^^<br /><br />I really love the story and the way how a lady fights for her principles...<br /><br />there are a lot of times she's facing all kind of struggles, and she tends to give up...<br /><br />but she prays to God and she takes the right path....<br /><br />I admire her attitude in facing life...<br /><br />She holds on to her principles....<br /><br />I hope tomorrow's presentation ll runs smoothly and really hope that they ll enjoy my presentation as I really want to share with them...<br /><br />Everything ll be fine i hope and i jz nid 2 present my best...<br /><br />Cant wait for tomorrow presentation...<br /><br />Yeah...n I'm going home tomorrow's night...<br /><br />so cool ya...^^<br /><br />mummy misses me a lot la...wahahah...<br /><br />k then, again, a reminder....<br /><br />I'm having my 21st B'day Party on 22nd of Aug at 7p.m in my house....<br /><br />See u guys then...<br /><br />miss n love u lot...<br /><br />muack muack...<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2200=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-32674654054426602112009-08-08T01:00:00.001-07:002009-08-11T06:52:07.403-07:00Animal Farm~Animal Farm by George Orwell is a famous novel I guess...<br /><br />n i'm currently doing a assignment on it...<br /><br />my focus is on one of the minor chracters in the novel~~~~Boxer....<br /><br />Boxer is the strongest animal in the farm but sad to say he is not intelligent or i would rather say he's stupid....<br /><br />Actually, Boxer is born to be a tragedy cuz he doesnt has his own thought...<br /><br />he follows everything blindly...<br /><br />a person without his own thought would not be able to survive..<br /><br />even he/she is able, her life would be in a miserable state...<br /><br />Poor Boxer, he should be partly responsible with his tragic ending...<br /><br />Things would be different if he has his own thought.<br /><br />Sigh..Anyway, i'm done wif Boxer and i'm having lot of fun dealing wif him...<br /><br />hopefully Dr. Suzana ll enjoy reading my assignment..<br /><br />I hope wat i hav done is not nonsense to her...<br /><br />Haha...<br /><br />ll upload new post soon...<br /><br />see ya..<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2200=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-51963949546597099032009-08-01T07:18:00.001-07:002009-08-01T07:18:30.730-07:00Happy B'day,my dear Lai Lai~^^Happy 21st B'day~~EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-72984937444422043512009-07-29T07:30:00.000-07:002009-07-29T07:39:21.729-07:00A Fine Day~~~Nothing much happened today...<br /><br /> everything is fine and smooth....<br /><br />as usual, morning 9a.m tutorial class...<br /><br />today, we discuss bout tree diagram for morphology...<br /><br />nothing much, it's jz a revise 4 me as i hav learned it before...<br /><br />then my English class...<br /><br />today's quite fun...<br /><br />we hav impromptu presentation...<br /><br />its so fun to see other ppl's funny reaction...<br /><br />ya, there's a question about if u're a rabbit and u met a hungry tiger, how would u persuade the tiger not to eat u?<br /><br />my answer is<br /><br />" Dear Mr. Tiger, all animals are equal in the world, so you shouldnt eat me cuz we're supposed to be fren. Friends are meant to help each other not to hurt each other. I know u're hungry, but I'm seriously not supposed to be ur food. I can introduce some nice food for u. Btw, U hav to remember an important phrase "FOUR LEGS GOOD, TWO LEGS BAD". So both of us are four legs, so we're the good one in the world. Those who hav two legs are bad and you should eat them. If u dunno which is bad, I'll show u. So lets make a deal, U dun eat me and i fine food for u. Cool? "<br /><br />Well, act i din get to answer in the class, cuz my number is very behind...<br /><br />but everytime when ppl's answering i'm act having my own script inside my head...<br /><br />so though it's bored sometimes, i hav my own fun in a way...<br /><br />too bad is jz tat i din get to share wif others...haha..^^<br /><br />afternoon class is kind of confused...<br /><br />i mean about thr morph...<br /><br />i kind of understand but still couldnt really make my mind clear...<br /><br />so i still nid time to really digest it...<br /><br />trust me, i ll come out wif a conclusion de...^^<br /><br />so tat's all for today...<br /><br />see ya....<br /><br />miss n love u lot..<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2240=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-48567668488017197552009-07-28T06:34:00.000-07:002009-07-28T06:45:00.799-07:00A Pack day~~Tuesday's alwiz my busiest day....<br /><br />I hav 3 major class in a row....<br /><br />so basically early in the morning...<br /><br />9-11a.m, I hav HXE 210 which is 19th and 20th century novel...<br /><br />its a very interesting class....<br /><br />it involves a lot of discussion but normally i'll remain quiet in the class...<br /><br />it doesnt mean tat i've nothing to say...<br /><br />it's jz tat i din get the chance to speak out my mind...<br /><br />n also i'm too shy to speak in front of the crowd...<br /><br />then straight after tat class i hav another major class fr 11-1p.m...<br /><br />this course is HET 213- Structure and Grammar in Eng...<br /><br />basically, its dealing with morphology and syntax...<br /><br />again, the class is an intesting one...<br /><br />the lecturer is so lame tat he brings lot of laughter in the class...<br /><br />i enjoy his class very much...^^<br /><br />finally, i get to hav 1 hour break in between to hav my lunch and also to relax my mind...<br /><br />the next class is the tough one and the lecturer is very strict...<br /><br />the next course is HXE 211 which is Literary Criticism....<br /><br />wow...I alwiz feel so tension when i enter the class...<br /><br />we're learning colonialism, post-colonialism, colonialist discourse, orientalism....<br /><br />these are the tool for us to use in anlysing a text which could be in any form like poem, short stories and even novel...<br /><br />it's actually quite nice if the lecturer is not the strict...<br /><br />anyway, i got my two assignments today...<br /><br />cool rite?<br /><br />one is due on 14 of Aug and the other one is on 25th of Aug...<br /><br />they keep on warning us not to submit late...<br /><br />no worry, i'm a good student...<br /><br />so i'll surely submit it on time de...haha...^^<br /><br />k then, shall stop here...<br /><br />ll update soon...so keep the tune...<br /><br />miss n love u lot...<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2145=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-60678641354407598692009-07-25T06:49:00.000-07:002009-07-25T06:59:38.299-07:00Weird Case to Share~~~I dunno wat happen recently...<br /><br />stranger keep on pestering me through my phone...<br /><br />I'm trying to call my fren to ask him stuff...<br /><br />but accidentally call to the wrong number...<br /><br />so after that that guy keep on calling n calling though i told him its wrong number...<br /><br />finally, my fren helps me to pick up n scolded him n he dint call me after tat...<br /><br />phew...before tat he miss called me 15 days without me picking up once...<br /><br />seriously mad ppl...<br /><br />today, again, somebody msg me asking me how r u....<br /><br />so i ask him who r u? (cuz i jz changed a new phone so i lost almost every contact...)<br /><br />then he told me he's looking for someone name "Engrey"....<br /><br />so i told him sorry, i'm not...<br /><br />then he started all kind of nonsense...<br /><br />asking me wat's my name, how old n stuff...<br /><br />i tried to ignore him then he said he comfirm i'm Engrey and said i hate him....<br /><br />Ah~~~~~~~~<br /><br />i told him again I'm not his fren n stop talking to stranger....<br /><br />wat happen to my phone num a?<br /><br />did anyone simply give away my phone num??????<br /><br />Ok, forget it...<br /><br />i jz pretend i see nothing and stop calling or msg me.....<br /><br />I DUNNO WHO U ARE~~~~~~<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2200=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-34525103942413283652009-07-23T06:44:00.000-07:002009-07-23T06:53:57.599-07:00I MISS LAI HUI YING~~~~Wow, it has been a long time since i last blogged.<br /><br />Not tat i purposely dun wan to blog but it's jz due to bad internet connection n of cuz buzy uni life...<br /><br />Then nobody is rushing me to update my blog so i take my own time doing other stuff lo...<br /><br />well, this's my 3rd week in uni...<br /><br />its amazing i'm now in my 2nd year.....<br /><br />time really flies....<br /><br />but i'm grateful with wat i hav gone through...<br /><br />i hav learn a lot...and sometimes i paid a lot to learn a lesson...<br /><br />I'm glad i can learn by just paying money...bcuz there are so much things u learn wif regret and there's no turning point...<br /><br />for me, i'm able to make a U-turn....<br /><br />its a blessing to get the chance to learn...<br /><br />now everything is settled, i dun cry anymore...<br /><br />i can face my struggles and challenges calmly d...<br /><br />everything is fine..<br /><br />ok, complete talking bout uni, lets talk bout my old frens...<br /><br />Sorry Jing n Lai Lai, i couldnt make it for ur 21st b'day celebration...<br /><br />no worry, u guys can come 2 my 21st b'day party instead..Yay...<br /><br />haha...Lai Lai, of cuz i miss u a lot ya...<br /><br />I feel so sry i couldnt make it for ur b'day party...<br /><br />but i got training tat time...<br /><br />so i couldnt make it...<br /><br />sorry...<br /><br />but we'll see each other soon..<br /><br />take good care of urself...<br /><br />i'll blog as often as i could now...<br /><br />cuz i hav my very own internet connection...<br /><br />everything's so cool n settled...<br /><br />do check up my blog ya...<br /><br />miss n love u lot...<br /><br />muacks...<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2200=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-71001171774123613132009-07-10T08:06:00.000-07:002009-07-10T08:20:31.025-07:001st week in Uni~~~~<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaulyLpgvGPnn89KJAQ7BpT05vPmxekzoFoPbfx6BwQRtRZZbbW-fArM7CQdD61SAVJEND_b-2rL46884z409UMiXCdbLC8Izt0kpc2PYQAqzuGxOLBchtvFCS6KsLrzAXGPVerLMwzAwX/s1600-h/Image020.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356850028270384002" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaulyLpgvGPnn89KJAQ7BpT05vPmxekzoFoPbfx6BwQRtRZZbbW-fArM7CQdD61SAVJEND_b-2rL46884z409UMiXCdbLC8Izt0kpc2PYQAqzuGxOLBchtvFCS6KsLrzAXGPVerLMwzAwX/s320/Image020.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQmcGIdqo7srmkvrgOFRjw4w-c7G9r26-3YDyJkelmM3bSGuFGyKPPaHfjWyngDXFFjMqNLPrVvoTuXJ_JNepQBAz4HoI464W5fEWIWF74xAeoTpfUt3gn0P4VAkDGV7DrSNu9AbjIth-U/s1600-h/Image023.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356850026344224002" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQmcGIdqo7srmkvrgOFRjw4w-c7G9r26-3YDyJkelmM3bSGuFGyKPPaHfjWyngDXFFjMqNLPrVvoTuXJ_JNepQBAz4HoI464W5fEWIWF74xAeoTpfUt3gn0P4VAkDGV7DrSNu9AbjIth-U/s320/Image023.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div></div></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-58956121426593500132009-05-31T07:29:00.000-07:002009-05-31T08:03:24.450-07:00Love the World~Part 2<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisXQS9h01S7PjvWQ3Fgfl6qM3WSTUi21dxsRKXEk0jgdESyzqrTJXo2PKh8NYA329-hwuhMIMZ6oyvuXK-_1Bl8x2DvTj2BX_qWmIKHAp5pqK1JPlzFOayMdqLORh1m_J72FR6TFKRgwIV/s1600-h/Image080.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342002203806985570" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisXQS9h01S7PjvWQ3Fgfl6qM3WSTUi21dxsRKXEk0jgdESyzqrTJXo2PKh8NYA329-hwuhMIMZ6oyvuXK-_1Bl8x2DvTj2BX_qWmIKHAp5pqK1JPlzFOayMdqLORh1m_J72FR6TFKRgwIV/s320/Image080.jpg" /></a><br /><div><div><div><div>Hi all, so the three of us are the winners in the camp...Fr left, Me, being the 3rd position, they said that I'm the loser. The middle one, My dear Lai Lai, being the 2nd position, claimed that she's the winner..So, the right one, my dear sis, leads the champion...Yeah...^^</div><div><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgshyZMHU1Wjm4Um1BieB9EQ4GnLK9WqJitSS-3sc6EHxiHy5OBBGWQ9xMlRFDBTeE5DHusMrIOmCZYFoHfbnXqWM7FkGHw_9IXGkxA05K61JMzf847SRq5zcUw2ygdEI5-7PQx8HmDoIs9/s1600-h/Image079.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341997473489005938" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgshyZMHU1Wjm4Um1BieB9EQ4GnLK9WqJitSS-3sc6EHxiHy5OBBGWQ9xMlRFDBTeE5DHusMrIOmCZYFoHfbnXqWM7FkGHw_9IXGkxA05K61JMzf847SRq5zcUw2ygdEI5-7PQx8HmDoIs9/s320/Image079.jpg" /></a> Me n Lai, so sweet..see the pink flower on her hand..She's too naughty, so the sweety Jie Jie (the clown) gives her a ballon, so that she could sit down quietly n not make noise. Haha..(Sorry, Lai, this's my blog, so i talk nonsense also wont kena tahanan ISA..Haha...)<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnrpA3feOk9sNqQIQFVMQ5sAsrOP2__Ra72T2Yxq8HUqc2VurQgfKsASpnbaPYW4OTAvaNriZMs-kv461J8vvn-WIGk7udt5KINA0I4nwwpfjo8dy1EAG1VatwbVpREAGPxvUkdtrxojKU/s1600-h/Image077.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341997471964349650" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnrpA3feOk9sNqQIQFVMQ5sAsrOP2__Ra72T2Yxq8HUqc2VurQgfKsASpnbaPYW4OTAvaNriZMs-kv461J8vvn-WIGk7udt5KINA0I4nwwpfjo8dy1EAG1VatwbVpREAGPxvUkdtrxojKU/s320/Image077.jpg" /></a> Zhen has been bully Lai Lai in the camp...so this's her tragic ending...haha...Dun simply bully others ya...^^<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdJFlndz2iFj2Np6Z0GootycAX4t7auJ5HzIz0Tob3UjpaAbHli8yq9Agc0et06wcKPOmadTtJOZFfsrYdkWYmq5VI403SWCOOq20zN-OaeyoS8HT6XhoCk5RWKe839jbNP6AN4H_K3Mqu/s1600-h/Image076.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341997472319731298" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdJFlndz2iFj2Np6Z0GootycAX4t7auJ5HzIz0Tob3UjpaAbHli8yq9Agc0et06wcKPOmadTtJOZFfsrYdkWYmq5VI403SWCOOq20zN-OaeyoS8HT6XhoCk5RWKe839jbNP6AN4H_K3Mqu/s320/Image076.jpg" /></a><br />This's just some acting..so it doesnt look as real as the previous pic..Lai force me to kiss her and then she act pity then my sis take the pic..haha..^^<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDJxkEKRlQ2cKQ_N9VAfDaufWJ25ErITdfGyxVSpyLjNebBbkgSRcpvarKinWvQ3qj_y0xwIUlL8lerdrYBmqxu9FE92Yit4hWMSwx-ZotxxYH_ISEtqbHsRIIDrUY-WhJ9PW2_p949dkf/s1600-h/Image075.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341997467693497074" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDJxkEKRlQ2cKQ_N9VAfDaufWJ25ErITdfGyxVSpyLjNebBbkgSRcpvarKinWvQ3qj_y0xwIUlL8lerdrYBmqxu9FE92Yit4hWMSwx-ZotxxYH_ISEtqbHsRIIDrUY-WhJ9PW2_p949dkf/s320/Image075.jpg" /></a><br />This's Tzi Mang...she's so cute right? So i took her pic lo...^^<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjL97K2yLV3GPqTiR0LG4d5ZPVhupJsdnF05ejIh_mSYyiBdKNRENAb-O6OFCHCXWpui6BUysh0563NCPFSHtw_nYPNNZD8VEwPTEB3v4M0g74bbSN1inc1ohpgbHT6xusWd6d_d0LWQe5/s1600-h/Image303.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996978098270354" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjL97K2yLV3GPqTiR0LG4d5ZPVhupJsdnF05ejIh_mSYyiBdKNRENAb-O6OFCHCXWpui6BUysh0563NCPFSHtw_nYPNNZD8VEwPTEB3v4M0g74bbSN1inc1ohpgbHT6xusWd6d_d0LWQe5/s320/Image303.jpg" /></a><br /><br />This is the environment friendly workshop...they are learning through watching some video clip...that little indian boy couldnt see the screen and so he's doing nonsense...haha....<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLmJkpgwYUrjsCU0sYY1_R27RGJyO5vCswYUO5Z1i2ldNEXHGKMg_W6U-rNkBCOp2jMX785T3jxcwgazHbRvXQQRufsDKSR6gAR_JuYkPLjtfrZ5QwqrLQynJR0rTNFGK1Kk8bowbCQhAe/s1600-h/Image302.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996971186439938" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLmJkpgwYUrjsCU0sYY1_R27RGJyO5vCswYUO5Z1i2ldNEXHGKMg_W6U-rNkBCOp2jMX785T3jxcwgazHbRvXQQRufsDKSR6gAR_JuYkPLjtfrZ5QwqrLQynJR0rTNFGK1Kk8bowbCQhAe/s320/Image302.jpg" /></a><br /><br />Again, we're still in the environment friendly workshop...they're listening to T. Anna...can see that it's a really interesting class and everyone's paying full attention..^^<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzM0xZuizixykhsjq7Nuhwd_jT7nG28eWDTUUfUFNoo58xmjirYRm_At0QuVbEcJuYXwzi59xHR2W181j39fopuUrFvf-gvy1GZsuM5VlCFau8C_t53N6dLqmmFB9w3qrYall2B2VuutSm/s1600-h/Image301.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996973782355538" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzM0xZuizixykhsjq7Nuhwd_jT7nG28eWDTUUfUFNoo58xmjirYRm_At0QuVbEcJuYXwzi59xHR2W181j39fopuUrFvf-gvy1GZsuM5VlCFau8C_t53N6dLqmmFB9w3qrYall2B2VuutSm/s320/Image301.jpg" /></a> The environment friendly workshop's decoration...so nice le..got pond, flowers, fish and trees....<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjasrx2ByeS3HUdGY3XM85EzW9O6-hnA38HQ2MbW2EAZdz5J-9eJK6An-kVtct9kWgcEXJXSIIzE4JW8Htji-dEpbcuvizU2x2iNvsDbDEPVODMOYZ-KLYn9mXvrEsvtbg_5Yo0OWli9gAC/s1600-h/Image069.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996969780111954" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjasrx2ByeS3HUdGY3XM85EzW9O6-hnA38HQ2MbW2EAZdz5J-9eJK6An-kVtct9kWgcEXJXSIIzE4JW8Htji-dEpbcuvizU2x2iNvsDbDEPVODMOYZ-KLYn9mXvrEsvtbg_5Yo0OWli9gAC/s320/Image069.jpg" /></a><br /><br />Another workshop...Its vegetables and fruits workshop..they are doing some art craft...using poster colour and vege to make photo frame..oh, that's T. Lina...<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCKqYWF9NJu_4dBPuofuictvcHtFuFs9Orquh2kGTasfdCWG58WIacF8M4HbdXl2_DrNpIYQZMqMaaoX4CKMHndylSuR8oFzy6DGs2nRDnwobRoZdUuS-OOmUy5fH7tDqWm_mvaA7M5ki6/s1600-h/Image067.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996964287645634" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCKqYWF9NJu_4dBPuofuictvcHtFuFs9Orquh2kGTasfdCWG58WIacF8M4HbdXl2_DrNpIYQZMqMaaoX4CKMHndylSuR8oFzy6DGs2nRDnwobRoZdUuS-OOmUy5fH7tDqWm_mvaA7M5ki6/s320/Image067.jpg" /></a><br />After listening to T' Lina's explanation, they start doing on their own..wow..so colourful...^^<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBQix2bQVOrqpcaMu10_bzIdH7uFaiMhOCpEJ-F-s2pFhaL6LF088xeGD1vK_qhaPMsPMJnFQ83VuNMtKqJiU-30nRU52sbjr7GtXqNuNje1U8EWzsDJDT5wUOXViOGBB6MaCKxOdDZbCH/s1600-h/Image071.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996140303530354" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBQix2bQVOrqpcaMu10_bzIdH7uFaiMhOCpEJ-F-s2pFhaL6LF088xeGD1vK_qhaPMsPMJnFQ83VuNMtKqJiU-30nRU52sbjr7GtXqNuNje1U8EWzsDJDT5wUOXViOGBB6MaCKxOdDZbCH/s320/Image071.jpg" /></a><br />They try making stuff by using vege and fruit..they show their thought with creative decoration..dun ask me wat's this...it's jz sth they wan 2 show..haha...^^<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgE7rSOQmZnmPCQyJqCoF2awE5z_fZZfzTVTkv3Jbk9IXJIb5-k20S7cmV9-dojCopUR_-QeWN9OBlvqs_FLTy_cGtGbnTYQ8KSJuSXLA6c3xvPDznq01f6xg7h1aYFcHSnnCxIOIhSdaAV/s1600-h/Image059.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996136567201282" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgE7rSOQmZnmPCQyJqCoF2awE5z_fZZfzTVTkv3Jbk9IXJIb5-k20S7cmV9-dojCopUR_-QeWN9OBlvqs_FLTy_cGtGbnTYQ8KSJuSXLA6c3xvPDznq01f6xg7h1aYFcHSnnCxIOIhSdaAV/s320/Image059.jpg" /></a><br />All kind of fruits and vege for them to see, feel, touch, smell and taste...^^<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvmoS5-ShpeV52qCuhOLvd0kqs8224NrdmDXHVY0hxYe3_RWnz-1jXptLaAAxVvpASg_R_P1fVNM1sTlTpraUYgTB0rGz2Giq5TYsvMlWImoUZdz5G48DsGDnsuLn_Yo8LoTZHAyVFgYHK/s1600-h/Image057.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996130817257874" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvmoS5-ShpeV52qCuhOLvd0kqs8224NrdmDXHVY0hxYe3_RWnz-1jXptLaAAxVvpASg_R_P1fVNM1sTlTpraUYgTB0rGz2Giq5TYsvMlWImoUZdz5G48DsGDnsuLn_Yo8LoTZHAyVFgYHK/s320/Image057.jpg" /></a><br />They are trying to introduce healthy food and unhealthy food..see how creative is the ticer, stapple the food on the tree..haha..^^<br /><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXi6ZiRwY56G_hwd-79wUz9dAL42cZaysVORRlkSUE1eBrXG-_UDEZD0mPix_aXG7FF_RPbiGgQiCcJIYD8C3811W3rjJZEsXBq8Z2-64O4K18M6d6-fH5CYWZt4fgls_UMr29Xr0TCgmr/s1600-h/Image044.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341996126014968098" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXi6ZiRwY56G_hwd-79wUz9dAL42cZaysVORRlkSUE1eBrXG-_UDEZD0mPix_aXG7FF_RPbiGgQiCcJIYD8C3811W3rjJZEsXBq8Z2-64O4K18M6d6-fH5CYWZt4fgls_UMr29Xr0TCgmr/s320/Image044.jpg" /></a> The animal's workshop...These are the kids i lead this two days..N the ticers incharge are T. Mariana and T. May..they learn about the endangered animals and know how to protect them...They also learn bout pets and their responsibility to hav a pet..</div><div> </div><div>I only get to introduce three workshops..they are actually two more workshop to go...but due to some technical prob, i'm not able to show here...i'll try to get other pictures ready asap and post them here...so be patient..see ya soon..</div><div> </div><div>miss and love u lot...oh ya, before i forget..</div><div> </div><div>I, Grace Yeoh would like to say thank you to Miss Lai Hui Ying for her help in these two days' camp. We're sorry for not having the chance to treat you. Please give me a chance to treat you when you're free. Miss and love you lot.</div><div> </div><div>K then, done my blog..see ya...ll be going to KL tomorrow..Yeah...^^</div></div><div><div><br />=En En=</div><div>=2305=<br /></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-65619813554467601442009-05-28T06:54:00.000-07:002009-05-28T07:05:15.536-07:00Dark Room Exp~~Weird title? well, this's sth i jz go through today...<br /><br />i'm supposed to go for piano class every Thur at 4.30pm...<br /><br />but today at round 3p.m, after i hav well-prepared to go for piano class, my piano ticer called and said that she's sick and so today's class is cancelled...<br /><br />well, i'm kind of disappointed cause i hav done my part and hope to learn new stuff...<br /><br />anyway, so coincidence my dad's home today, so we decided to watch a movie instead...<br /><br />there'a a show i really want wo watch "Night at the Musuem 2"...<br /><br />and if we go there before 6p.m, my sis and I could get student price...<br /><br />so we went there to watch the 4.50p.m show...<br /><br />everything's so cool that i even get to buy meatball...(I love meatball, C.S's cinema doesn't supply meatball..><)<br /><br />anyway, the show's cool and everybody's laughing happily...<br /><br />when Lary is talking Eistein, the cinema suddenly black out...<br /><br />i tell you it's totally dark that not even a light is on in the room...<br /><br />the best part is, my daddy, my sis and i din bring our hp along..<br /><br />But, i'm glad i hav Bay-G watch which could provide me some dim light...(sounds like i'm doing advertisement for Baby-G)<br /><br />we could do nothing but sitted there waitng for further instruction...<br /><br />after round 15~20mins, somebody finally turns up..<br /><br />they ask us to get a cop on our ticket and we could go back anytime in one week time to redeem our show..<br /><br />i jz told myself, i would rather go to C.S next time since i'm paying the same price for the show...(there's only one prob wif CS's cinema~which is no meatball...><)<br /><br />i'm now having trouble to think of a day to go back to the cinema and watch the show again...<br /><br />sigh...a bit down la..wat the~~okok, no worry, everything ll be fine...<br /><br />k then, this's my SUPER SPECIAL experience in a dark room...<br /><br />hopefully i wont hav to go through it again anymore..<br /><br />ll update soon, miss n love u lot..<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2205=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8910297638419466424.post-33793702333372537322009-05-27T19:43:00.000-07:002009-05-28T06:25:34.163-07:00Love the World~~~~This is the HOTTEST topic nowadays...<br /><br /><br />everybody talks about environment friendly, love our mother earth, say no to plastic bags, white coffin and so on...<br /><br />even kindergarten promotes this concept...<br /><br />so our coming children camp is bout "LOVE THE WORLD"...<br /><br />we're going to teach the kids how 2 take care our earth, from protecting ourself to protecting the endagered animals to protecting the environment...<br /><br />it needs everyone's effort and co-operation...<br /><br />through workshop and games, they are going to hav so much fun...<br /><br />Yea, they'll be so happy running all over the school, exploring and learning through fun...<br /><br />while we, the teachers hav some much preparation works....<br /><br />Fr decorationg the classroom to organising games, preparing art craft, all take effort and time..<br /><br />everyone's busy with different works....wow...cool ya...<br /><br />let me promote a bit bit bout the coming camp...^^<br /><br />it helds on 30~31 May 2009, in other words, this coming Sat n Sun...<br /><br />venue: Unity Kindy House<br /><br />Tomorrow ll be our last day for preparation, a bit scary, much more things to follow up...<br /><br />Jia you Jia you... hopefully everything ll run smothly and hav a great camp....<br /><br />ll update soon...miss n love u lot..<br /><br />=En En=<br />=2130=EnEnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04591424962314356947noreply@blogger.com0